TTC baby #1 first cycle AF symptoms :(

[MrsC TTCn1]

Hi everyone ,

It's my first time in a forum , and first time TTC . I'm 35, i'm HAITIAN , living in HAITI , just got married ( july 16th 2016) . DH and I , had this month right after my cycle ended. I'm very irregular , I use OPKs and my cycle is short 25 average . This month I think i missed my widow with the tests , because they were negative around my OD ... AF showed up on august 1rst and I was suppose to O and the 11th or 12th . Both tests where neg( been since the 6th stopped on the 21 every day because i didn't know when i would O) . SO on 15th i still had OPK tests i did one and it was darker (but not positive) then the ones i did on the 11th and 12th,and i was like , so DH got right to it ( by that time i was worried cuz we didn't stopped BD and did the laying on the back thing)

Since the 10th i've been felling weird , like bloated , nauseous , extremely sore nipples , sore breasts . Today we are the 24th and it's almost time for AF to show her ugly face , so I feel that all the symptoms I have now are just normal menstrual cramps and bloating. I already tested , like a 100 time I know it's my first cycle trying but i'm 35 and worried . On top of my age i have a tilted uterus , when i was checking my CM it was really hard for me . My uterus is tilted to the right, I literally had to like... dig to find the entrance of my cervix which is on the left SORRY (TMI) .

I went to a fertility doctor he told me not to worry just to keep on ... But still .

Anyone with my issues ? I need a buddy . Everyone seems to criticize my worries and say i'm crying for attention

Thank you for reading.

 

[Mindy12345]

Hi! I just saw your thread i posted one just now. But i am on the same boat!
We have been ttc for 2 months, my cycles are 28-32days, so for maxlength, my af is due on friday. Ive also taken so many hpts, all negative 😭😭 im so sad. But i feel like i should be pregnant because my breasts have been so sore and swollen since 7dpo, now af is almost due still tender and swollen. Ive been having cramps, which i do w pms but i always get cramps onday of af. Not days before.
Ive been tired of taking hpts, my friend told me to use opk, she sId it sometimes catches pregnancy earlier, i did todayand still, negative, just a faint line. 😔 Im losing hope.