TTC immediately after MMC help xx

[mellfckimpton]

Ok so im new to all this TTC and MC please bear with me if i get anything wrong;I found out at the beginning of this month that id had a MMC my baby had died a month before i thought i was 12 weeks, i had an EPRC on the 5th Nov and bled until 19th/20th nov, im wondering when i would of ovulated? Really hoping for another, and if i ovulated we had sex after i stopped bleeding i think we only went 2 days without DTD at most otherwise it was every day/ every other day. Could i get pregnant? Im so confused by it all, also are there any tips on getting pregnant best positions etc etcthanks everyone xxx

 

[emma4g63]

Ok so im new to all this TTC and MC please bear with me if i get anything wrong;I found out at the beginning of this month that id had a MMC my baby had died a month before i thought i was 12 weeks, i had an EPRC on the 5th Nov and bled until 19th/20th nov, im wondering when i would of ovulated? Really hoping for another, and if i ovulated we had sex after i stopped bleeding i think we only went 2 days without DTD at most otherwise it was every day/ every other day. Could i get pregnant? Im so confused by it all, also are there any tips on getting pregnant best positions etc etcthanks everyone xxx

hi similar story here..
i had my d and c 3 weeks ago tommorow and i was 11 weeks days baby was 8 weeks 5 day
d and c was the 6th november and bled until 14th and starting have sex but protected.
i tested on friday 21st to see if it was negative so see if HCG had gone and it was a clear negative..

had unprotected sex everynight till then and hoping to catch... using OPK too to catch ovulation but only starting using them yesterday

i have read loads online about people getting pregnant 2-3 weeks after so heress hoping!! keep us posted

 

[mellfckimpton]

Ok so im new to all this TTC and MC please bear with me if i get anything wrong;I found out at the beginning of this month that id had a MMC my baby had died a month before i thought i was 12 weeks, i had an EPRC on the 5th Nov and bled until 19th/20th nov, im wondering when i would of ovulated? Really hoping for another, and if i ovulated we had sex after i stopped bleeding i think we only went 2 days without DTD at most otherwise it was every day/ every other day. Could i get pregnant? Im so confused by it all, also are there any tips on getting pregnant best positions etc etcthanks everyone xxx

hi similar story here..
i had my d and c 3 weeks ago tommorow and i was 11 weeks days baby was 8 weeks 5 day
d and c was the 6th november and bled until 14th and starting have sex but protected.
i tested on friday 21st to see if it was negative so see if HCG had gone and it was a clear negative..

had unprotected sex everynight till then and hoping to catch... using OPK too to catch ovulation but only starting using them yesterday

i have read loads online about people getting pregnant 2-3 weeks after so heress hoping!! keep us posted

I took a test today to make sure i got a negative which i did and took an opk that also was negative i think ive missed ovulation but have been dtd every other day so hopefully we will have caught xxx

 

[emma4g63]

Ok so im new to all this TTC and MC please bear with me if i get anything wrong;I found out at the beginning of this month that id had a MMC my baby had died a month before i thought i was 12 weeks, i had an EPRC on the 5th Nov and bled until 19th/20th nov, im wondering when i would of ovulated? Really hoping for another, and if i ovulated we had sex after i stopped bleeding i think we only went 2 days without DTD at most otherwise it was every day/ every other day. Could i get pregnant? Im so confused by it all, also are there any tips on getting pregnant best positions etc etcthanks everyone xxx

hi similar story here..
i had my d and c 3 weeks ago tommorow and i was 11 weeks days baby was 8 weeks 5 day
d and c was the 6th november and bled until 14th and starting have sex but protected.
i tested on friday 21st to see if it was negative so see if HCG had gone and it was a clear negative..

had unprotected sex everynight till then and hoping to catch... using OPK too to catch ovulation but only starting using them yesterday

i have read loads online about people getting pregnant 2-3 weeks after so heress hoping!! keep us posted

I took a test today to make sure i got a negative which i did and took an opk that also was negative i think ive missed ovulation but have been dtd every other day so hopefully we will have caught xxx

were very similar in dates on d and c etc.. you bled longer though..
i think i may have missed it too but just keep bedding if you can and OPK just incase....

hope we both get BFPS

 

[mellfckimpton]

Ok so im new to all this TTC and MC please bear with me if i get anything wrong;I found out at the beginning of this month that id had a MMC my baby had died a month before i thought i was 12 weeks, i had an EPRC on the 5th Nov and bled until 19th/20th nov, im wondering when i would of ovulated? Really hoping for another, and if i ovulated we had sex after i stopped bleeding i think we only went 2 days without DTD at most otherwise it was every day/ every other day. Could i get pregnant? Im so confused by it all, also are there any tips on getting pregnant best positions etc etcthanks everyone xxx

hi similar story here..
i had my d and c 3 weeks ago tommorow and i was 11 weeks days baby was 8 weeks 5 day
d and c was the 6th november and bled until 14th and starting have sex but protected.
i tested on friday 21st to see if it was negative so see if HCG had gone and it was a clear negative..

had unprotected sex everynight till then and hoping to catch... using OPK too to catch ovulation but only starting using them yesterday

i have read loads online about people getting pregnant 2-3 weeks after so heress hoping!! keep us posted

I took a test today to make sure i got a negative which i did and took an opk that also was negative i think ive missed ovulation but have been dtd every other day so hopefully we will have caught xxx

were very similar in dates on d and c etc.. you bled longer though..
i think i may have missed it too but just keep bedding if you can and OPK just incase....

hope we both get BFPS

We are very similar, i hope we both get BFPS too, its the bleeding longer that makes me think ive missed it ahh its all weird and confusing isnt it xxxx

 

[emma4g63]

i know its frustrating as its all a guessing game for us now!!

no idea when to test as wont know when we OV or when AF is due.. so could be 6 week post d and c and no AF but could be normal still...

i feel abit crampy today just niggling feeling down below ((

 

[mellfckimpton]

i know its frustrating as its all a guessing game for us now!!

no idea when to test as wont know when we OV or when AF is due.. so could be 6 week post d and c and no AF but could be normal still...

i feel abit crampy today just niggling feeling down below ((

I know its the worst bit the not knowing the cramping may be implantation? its weird because im rushing to the toilet again and ive been feeling sick before eating in the morning again its probably my brain in overdrive tho lol xxx

 

[emma4g63]

lol heyyyy may not be i was exactly like that last time!
earliest could be is 5DAYS for implantation so think its a little early but not unknown but that would mean it was the first night we B'D.. so doubt it!1

any changes or updates let me know
keep each other focused on this what could be a long journey

 

[mellfckimpton]

I think it would be too soon for me to have symptoms? I dno though ill deffo keep u updated you keep me updated to xxxx

 

[jlw617]

Hi Ladies,
Im so glad this thread is here, Im actually currently miscarrying after finding out I had a missed miscarriage at my 8 week appointment but baby was only measuring 6 weeks...Im now 9 1/2 weeks now and its officially started. I had a MC before my first daughter was born and I got pregnant right after my first cycle. I hadn't ever really heard of TTC until after then but now I am highly considering it, especially since a good friend of mine had her rainbow baby that way! Im a little scared though and am worried my OB will be mad, but at the same time I guess I kind of just feel like its my body and if I want to try, who cares what my OB thinks right? Heres my question...for those of you that miscarried naturally-did you have a scan afterwards to make sure there was no remaining tissue behind? I guess Im a little worried that without that, I could be endangering a possible new baby and myself if theres leftover tissue...TIA

 

[mellfckimpton]

Hi Ladies,
Im so glad this thread is here, Im actually currently miscarrying after finding out I had a missed miscarriage at my 8 week appointment but baby was only measuring 6 weeks...Im now 9 1/2 weeks now and its officially started. I had a MC before my first daughter was born and I got pregnant right after my first cycle. I hadn't ever really heard of TTC until after then but now I am highly considering it, especially since a good friend of mine had her rainbow baby that way! Im a little scared though and am worried my OB will be mad, but at the same time I guess I kind of just feel like its my body and if I want to try, who cares what my OB thinks right? Heres my question...for those of you that miscarried naturally-did you have a scan afterwards to make sure there was no remaining tissue behind? I guess Im a little worried that without that, I could be endangering a possible new baby and myself if theres leftover tissue...TIA

Hi hun
Im so sorry your going through this i dont see why your OB would go mad, its your body so upto you, i didnt miscarry naturally but im sure you could ask for a scan, if there is tissue left it can get infected etc so best to be safe xxxxx

 

[emma4g63]

I too didnt miscarry naturally had a d and c 3 weeks ago today..
you can ask for a scan im sure.. but unless you carry on to bleed for weeks or foul smell im sure you will be ok
I Took PREG test 2 weeks after to check my levels and came back negative so a good sign im clear.. maybe try the same thing
really sorry for your loss

 

[mellfckimpton]

I too didnt miscarry naturally had a d and c 3 weeks ago today..
you can ask for a scan im sure.. but unless you carry on to bleed for weeks or foul smell im sure you will be ok
I Took PREG test 2 weeks after to check my levels and came back negative so a good sign im clear.. maybe try the same thing
really sorry for your loss

Hi Emma,
Again this morning i had a pang of sickness before eating & my chest feels tight i had that during my last pregnancy and im tired aswell its soooo strange i dno if to get excited or not xxxx

 

[Deezhma]

Im sorry for your loss, i had MC on the 18 october and when I went to ultrasound that was a natural MC and straight away the lady that checked me said I will ovulate very soon.

I checked my CM its thick that day so we tried straight away that night. Now I am pregnant 6 weeks. We didnt wait because I was ovulate straight after my MC.

 

[emma4g63]

test!! you may me pregnant!!
aww hope you are hun!!

 

[NDH]

Good luck ladies. I'm a bit behind you - only 10 days post mc but hoping I'll be gearing up to oculate soon. Stopped bleeding after 4 days and do we've already resumed BD every other day.

My followup scan was only a week after so was too early to see if I had follicles growing.

 

[mellfckimpton]

Yikes for the past 3 days ive felt like AF is coming tbh i dont usually cramp until after bleeding starts i still havent got my AF ive had cramping, back ache, had a headache the other day, i think i have a chest infection (i diagnosed myself with a chest infection before i had my little girl i didnt find out until 7 weeks as i thought i was latw due to a chest infection) my chest is tight and my asthma sucks when pregnant my boobs aint sore tho and ive been a bit tired i tested today and got a BFN if i go by my cycle which was a 28 day cycle before my miscarriage ill be due on on tuesday/wednesday surely if i was pg id of gotten a bfp by now? Using cheap ebay dip tests xxxx

 

[emma4g63]

Yikes for the past 3 days ive felt like AF is coming tbh i dont usually cramp until after bleeding starts i still havent got my AF ive had cramping, back ache, had a headache the other day, i think i have a chest infection (i diagnosed myself with a chest infection before i had my little girl i didnt find out until 7 weeks as i thought i was latw due to a chest infection) my chest is tight and my asthma sucks when pregnant my boobs aint sore tho and ive been a bit tired i tested today and got a BFN if i go by my cycle which was a 28 day cycle before my miscarriage ill be due on on tuesday/wednesday surely if i was pg id of gotten a bfp by now? Using cheap ebay dip tests xxxx

still time yet as cycles may be off... mabe ovulation was later.. hence no BFP yet..
iv had AF cramps too. major headaches and 6 dpo now.. had some slight pinching too last night.. and little today
will start testing thursday so will see
fingers crossed for us both!!!

 

[mellfckimpton]

Yikes for the past 3 days ive felt like AF is coming tbh i dont usually cramp until after bleeding starts i still havent got my AF ive had cramping, back ache, had a headache the other day, i think i have a chest infection (i diagnosed myself with a chest infection before i had my little girl i didnt find out until 7 weeks as i thought i was latw due to a chest infection) my chest is tight and my asthma sucks when pregnant my boobs aint sore tho and ive been a bit tired i tested today and got a BFN if i go by my cycle which was a 28 day cycle before my miscarriage ill be due on on tuesday/wednesday surely if i was pg id of gotten a bfp by now? Using cheap ebay dip tests xxxx

still time yet as cycles may be off... mabe ovulation was later.. hence no BFP yet..
iv had AF cramps too. major headaches and 6 dpo now.. had some slight pinching too last night.. and little today
will start testing thursday so will see
fingers crossed for us both!!!

Ive had pinching had that a few days ago, its like the more i look for symptoms the more i find, im gonna get a first response tomorrow i reckon see what it says xxx keep us updated when you start testing xxx

 

[mellfckimpton]

Took a clearblue digi this morning and got a BFN ughh think im out xxx