When my hubby and I decided to try and conceive, it didn't work out the first time, usually doesn't hey? And after I got news that it was a failure, I was so disappointed, and I really couldn't stand that disappointment, it hit the sensitive spot where it really hurts, so I gave up. I know right? Giving up after just one month >.> and I pretty much had the attitude of "I won't take any form of birth control from now on, we will just have fun with it, and if it happens then it happens." Next month I found out I was pregnant on my 22nd birthday.
In that second month, I decided to try this trick my friend told me about which worked for her and two other girls I know who were trying to conceive. After your man spills his magic army inside, lift up your hips while still laying down on the bed, and stay that way for at least a minute. I've heard people say that this technique wont make a difference, but when I did it that second month (cuz I hadn't the 1st month) I got pregnant right away. Plus I think the relaxed state of mind put my body into relaxation as well. Having a tense mind with a pressing matter will usually affect your body negatively as well.