TTC Rant

Stacip

Long-Term TTC #2
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Hi everyone, just need to rant.

We’ve been TTC baby #2 for 8 months; I know that in the grand scheme of things, it’s not that long, but it feels like forever.

I had an “ideal age gap” between my first and second, and have missed it already. With my first, I got pregnant on cycle 3, so I wasn’t expecting it to take this long...

I’m super annoyed, because my period is now 3 days late, which is fairly unusual. I know I’m not pregnant, as I’ve gotten a bunch of BFNs (and just know it in my gut).

My biggest problem though, and one that I’m sure most people can’t relate to, is that I’m asexual. This makes TTC a baby so difficult, and draining. People will say, “just stop trying and it will happen”. Except, as an asexual, that’s not how it works. I really have to plan each cycle out and time it just right.

Anyway, rant over haha. Thanks for listening.
 
Sorry you’re having a tough time! Time slows down when TTC and it’s so hard to plan it. Wishing you all the best, hope it happens for you soon!
 

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