Same here! I thought I was the only person dealing with this. I am 23 and Oh is 22. He works and supports us very well. I am in grad school and work part time as an instructor at my university. I have only told my close friends that we are TTC. I tried to talking my mom and sister about it and they always turn the conversation into me needing to wait and me rushing to fast. No one really seems to understand that it is hard trying to juggle all of these feelings. Of course I am in school b/c i want to get a great job/ career, but I also got married b/c I was ready to settle down and start a family... My plan is to get pregnant soon and have the right after i graduate. This will allow me time to spend with our child until I am ready to look for a job. Everything says I should wait until i have a job, then get pregnant. I just don't think that makes sense... Why get a job then have to leave and be limited as to how long I can spend with my child... uuuggghhhh. it's just sooo aggravating. Everyone has their plan for your life, but no one actually cares about how you feel?
I agree that you should have a child. You can't get a huge career if you will be moving around a lot. Sounds like a great opportunity to have a child, until he is stationed somewhere for a while. Then maybe you could look at starting a career.
But I can totally relate to having to deal with opposition. Only a couple of people know that we are TTC, I know that if more people (friends/family) knew, most would be disapproving. 
