TTCARL - Trying To Concieve After Recent Loss

[My_Story]

Anyone else?
We lost angel baby on May 2nd 2016 at 5+5. I haven't had next AF yet but have been told I don't need to wait if we feel ready. I think I may have ovulated a few days ago but I haven't done any OPK. Currently should be CD20 from the first day of MC.

Normally have a 25 day cycle and ovulate CD11. Had no ovulation symptoms until a few days ago but obviously waiting for first cycle since the last loss.

Anybody else in a similar situation to us?
I'm 25 and OH is 29. Trying for my second but his first.

 

[Mattsgirl]

Dh and I found out we lost baby on the 15th at 8 weeks. I was able to miscarry naurally. Bleeding just finished up and we decided we don't want to wait a cycle to start trying again. Like you doc said we don't have to if we feel ready. I had my blood drawen today to make sure my numbers are down. Will find out results either tonight or tomorrow morning. So will decide then when to start opks. We are the kinda of people that believe all things happen for a reason and when it's meant to happen it will. But doing opks takes stress away from me so thats the only eason I do those.

 

[MummyWant2be]

Hi Ladies,

So sorry for your loss.. I've just lost what I thought was our miracle baby after our first loss 4 years ago.. fingers crossed u both get sticky beans soon. i will be trying again in 3months time.

 

[may2016ttc]

Hello,

I am new to B&B. I am so sorry for your loss, its difficult to go through.

I had my miscarriage May 5th, baby stopped developing at 4 weeks and I miscarried at what should have been 7 weeks. (ovulated from right side) Doctor said I could try a week after, I waited 9 days and we ttc again (May 14th).

Last blood work on May 20th showed 0 beta hcg. Ovulation LH has been weirddddd, Im not sure whats going on at all with it. Have been checking like a mad woman everyday (sometimes twice a day).

OPK (LH)
5/17 - positive
5/18 - negative
5/19 - negative
5/20 - positive
5/21 - 5/24 - negative
5/25 positive

HCG
has been negative

last two days felt pain on left side at what I assume would be my ovary.
today feel very strange flutter like sensation at left side - again i think its the ovary.

 

[My_Story]

Sorry to hear about all of these little angels we all have. Sometimes they are too beautiful for earth. Feeling very fragile about it all still. Can't help but cry sometimes.

On May 26th had light bleeding that lasted an hour with mild af cramps. Then stopped. Had tainted pink cm on and off since then. And had super sore right nipple since around May 24th. Currently CD26 (from a normal 25). Tested HPT on Friday CD24 (May 27th) which was negative. My body seems so topsy turvy at the moment

How's everyone else? x

 

[Mattsgirl]

Waiting to O here. I don't think my hcg numbers are at 0 yet so who knows when that will be. I have anoth blood draw on Tuesday to check where they're at so fx'd I get a + opk this week. I would love a bfp by fathers day. Thats when we found out about dd 2 years ago.

 

[My_Story]

Fingers crossed for you sweetie. I'm hoping that would be the same for us. Xx

 

[Sarah233]

Hey ladies hope you are all well !
Sorry to jump in but I'm so confused
I had a mc about three weeks ago the last set of bloods I had a week before that had dropped to 700 hcg

I am stil getting positive tests ! How long should it take for it for me to go back to zero my head is so confused !

 

[My_Story]

Hey sweetie, it can take a while to go to zero.
Did you have a natural mc? Have you been checked that there's no pregnancy matter in your womb still? That will keep your hcg there. Maybe worth requesting a scan to check. Best of luck sweetie xx

 

[Mattsgirl]

Im in almost the same place. Mc about 2 and a half weeks ago. My bloods last week were 222 did another set on tuesday and they called this morning and said they still weren't at 0 and needed to go back next week for another blood draw. I'm so frustrated. I just want to put this behind us and move forward but I can't.

 

[My_Story]

Know how you feel sweetie. I didn't have bloods taken to know what my hcg have ever been. My hpt have all been negative since about 2 weeks after the mc. All I know is that I'm now CD31 of usual 25day cycle. Just keep randomly spotting all the time expecting it to develop into af but it doesn't

 

[Sarah233]

I know I deffinetly get the being frustrated part ladies ! Called Epu today and they said it would be unusual to still be having positives after a month and to go get a beta blood test blergh more needles
sending love to you all !

 

[Sarah233]

And yes had a natural miscarriage only lasted a couple of days I had a scan two days after the actual mc and she said that it had all passed so we shall see. !

 

[My_Story]

So slightly heavier bleeding today that's carried on all day so I'm wondering if this will develop into af. Here's to hoping!!

How are the rest of you? X

 

[Sarah233]

Fingers crossed for you Hun

I'm good thankyou Hun yesterday had a horrible day with it all though thought I was 'over it' all but obviously not !

How are you feeling x

 

[MrsReed2015]

Can I join ladies?

We had an ectopic pregnancy in Jan, which ended naturally. Then conceived again in March, but sadly that ended as a MMC, picked up at 9 weeks. I took the medically managed route.

My bleeding last a full week, and was heavy and painful. That was 6 weeks ago today! It's taken 3 weeks post MC to get a - test.

No sign of AF. I've had positive OPKs but not sure that they are reliable after a MC.

Like most we are keen to try again.. Third time lucky I hope!

Really hoping I either get AF ( never thought I'd say that!! ) or a nice clear BFP

Spoke with my hubby and decided well wait another two weeks then test if no AF. as that will be 8 weeks since we lost.

 

[Sarah233]

Hey !!

Sorry for your losses Hun it's an awful thing to go through , I completely get the whole waiting for AF thing cause like you I am stuck in limbo my problem is I'm still getting bfp so confusing right now.

Fingers crossed you will soon though !

Xx

 

[My_Story]

Can I join ladies?

We had an ectopic pregnancy in Jan, which ended naturally. Then conceived again in March, but sadly that ended as a MMC, picked up at 9 weeks. I took the medically managed route.

My bleeding last a full week, and was heavy and painful. That was 6 weeks ago today! It's taken 3 weeks post MC to get a - test.

No sign of AF. I've had positive OPKs but not sure that they are reliable after a MC.

Like most we are keen to try again.. Third time lucky I hope!

Really hoping I either get AF ( never thought I'd say that!! ) or a nice clear BFP

Spoke with my hubby and decided well wait another two weeks then test if no AF. as that will be 8 weeks since we lost.

Of course you can join us sweetie! Sorry to hear about your losses. Feel free to vent away if needed. We're all in the same boat!!

Hey !!

Sorry for your losses Hun it's an awful thing to go through , I completely get the whole waiting for AF thing cause like you I am stuck in limbo my problem is I'm still getting bfp so confusing right now.

Fingers crossed you will soon though !

Xx

How's things now Sarah? Anymore news?


As for me, AF finally arrived 3 days ago. God it's so painful and heavy. Nothing like usual AF. I REALLY hope this cycle is lucky for us!
I've been such a bitch to my lovely df this last week bless him. Super hormonal, stressed and upset. Feeling a better now though and less of a bitch.
Other than anaemic, which is making me ridiculously weak and tired.

Here's some baby dust to us all

 

[Starlight288]

Can I join as well? I had a m/c on 4/8. We were told to wait two cycles but couldn't make it. I thought I O'd on day 15 so we BD on day 16 , turns out I ovulated that day. I figure if it was meant to be it will be.
I'm now 4dpo and having some cramping but really trying not to symptom spot.

 

[My_Story]

You're more than welcome Starlight!! :wave:
Hopefully this thread will be a lucky one and will see us bringing BFP and rainbow babies into the world!

Are you a POAS addict? How many dpo will you start testing?