TTCARL - Trying To Concieve After Recent Loss

[Starlight288]

I'm going to try to avoid it testing until AF is late. Hoping I can hold out that long.

 

[Sarah233]

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How's things now Sarah? Anymore news?


As for me, AF finally arrived 3 days ago. God it's so painful and heavy. Nothing like usual AF. I REALLY hope this cycle is lucky for us!
I've been such a bitch to my lovely df this last week bless him. Super hormonal, stressed and upset. Feeling a better now though and less of a bitch.
Other than anaemic, which is making me ridiculously weak and tired.

Here's some baby dust to us all [/QUOTE]

Hey Hun ! Things are ok my hormones are literally mad !! Like uncontrollable

I did a CB digital yesterday with FMU and was a negative ! I did a massive no no though and pulled the test apart god don't do it Its confusing !!

I was due on yesterday but nothing yet except a hulk like temper but I've been like that for about 2 weeks so nothing new .

And just think as at as another new start glad your feeling better now

 

[My_Story]

Oh bless you Sarah. You sound like I was!
I've worked out that you won't start CD1 of the cycle after mc until your HCG hits 0.
For me it was the day I stopped bleeding (I think) because right on queue 25 days after AF finally came. I had originally done CD1 as the first day of MC but seems it wasn't. So there was me testing (thinking I was due af when I wasn't for another week) too early!!

Think I'm going to start temping soon. I want to know what's going on with my body if I can. Last time I tried to temp it didn't go so well though

 

[My_Story]

I'm going to try to avoid it testing until AF is late. Hoping I can hold out that long.

I apologise if I'm one of the ladies that encourages you to test at like 10dpo. I have POAS issues...

 

[Starlight288]

I'm going to try to avoid it testing until AF is late. Hoping I can hold out that long.

I apologise if I'm one of the ladies that encourages you to test at like 10dpo. I have POAS issues...

Oh I am too! Just trying not to do it this month as we only BD one time.

 

[My_Story]

It only takes one time!!! Was is around O?
Fingers crossed for you sweetie x

 

[Starlight288]

It was the day of! I thought it was the day after so my husband agreed ( he wanted to listen to doctor who said 2 cycles) but FF said it was the day we BD. It wasn't a oops moment!

 

[Sarah233]

Oh hell no I am confused just done another CB digital yesterday was a not pregnant and today is preg 1-2 weeks

Gahhhhhh

 

[Starlight288]

It was the day of! I thought it was the day after so my husband agreed ( he wanted to listen to doctor who said 2 cycles) but FF said it was the day we BD. It was a oops moment!

That should say it WAS a oops!

 

[My_Story]

Starlight - I have everything possible crossed for you!!
Hopefully all this dust I keep sending you is lucky!!

Sarah is it possible you're pregnant again, so you're getting bfp because this is a new pregnancy?

 

[Starlight288]

Thanks! You should definitely try temping again, shed a lot of light onto what my body was doing.

 

[Sarah233]

My_story

it's possible but I don't want to start thinking it is because as soon as I do that AF will show up lol !

I'm a firm believer in jinxing things (you may laugh) xD

X

 

[My_Story]

Soooooo....

AF has nearly buggered off for this cycle! And only 7 days until O! DF asked me this morning when we should get baby making! He was interested in my fertility friend app and everything. He's so sweet sometimes. He wants to be a daddy so much! Come on bfp - we want a sticky little bean so badly!!

Oh I'm a firm believer in jinxing things too. I swear I'm my own bad luck sometimes.

Sarah have you tested today? When will you be going to the gp if you keep getting bfp?

 

[Sarah233]

That's so sweet bless him and I'm sure you will have one very soon ! Xx

My boyfriend doesn't talk about it at all (about the mc) even when it happened he just puts a barrier up but I can't do anything about that and even when I talk about my test antics he doesn't say anything :/

So after saying that earlier about jixing things ( literally so it all the time ) guess what, what must be AF arrived

Tested all week and got lines

Did a test Saturday with a cb digital and got not pregnant

Did a test Sunday to check and got pregnant 1-2 weeks

Then started what seems to be AF this morning

My head is so messed up now I don't feel like I'm dealing with this very well it's been a month now and I still feel all over the place !

I'm going to try and get an appointment tomorrow even if it's just a chat
After my miscarriage doctors let me get on with it everything I've learnt about it has been from the net just have questions I need to ask

-sigh- sorry to rant this weeks just been a roller coaster week it's so nice having people to talk to who get it , I'm only 23 so a lot of my friends haven't thought about babies let alone been through this

Thank you ladies I it xx

 

[Starlight288]

Thanks so much my_story!! Had a slight dip today too. How are you doing today??

It will happen soon! I hear ya on jinxing yourself!

 

[MrsReed2015]

Never thought I would be so grateful to see AF!

She arrived today and is very painful. But I'm seeing the positive side in that it means my hormones have returned to normal and we can focus on trying again.

I've heard your more fertile after a miscarriage which was certainly the case after my eptopic.. She here's hoping we all get that BFP!

Xxx

 

[My_Story]

MrsReed - I know exactly what you mean. Kinda a relief knowing your body is starting to be normal. Positive thinking for this cycle

Sarah - did bleeding turn into AF or go away and leave you more baffled?

Starlight - ohhhhh a dip sounds promising! Any OPK?


As for me, I'm on CD7 and have so much EWCM!! TMI but df keeps wanting to touch as he thinks I'm in the mood but really is just my body gearing up to O! He's not used to so much EWCM AF only left 2 days ago. I usually ovulate around CD11. Did OPK this evening and it's not far off being positive... I'd say a few days...

 

[Starlight288]

Only went up a little today. I just feel out, I feel like my temps are to up and down to be pregnant.

 

[My_Story]

Starlight.
Maybe you're one of the pregnant ladies who gets gradual temp increase! You're not out until AF shows sweetie! I have everything crossed for you x

 

[Starlight288]

Yeah I'm not sure actually. The first time I actually charted was when I was pregnant. I charted last cycle just to see and it was all over the place. It's still above cover line so we'll see.Af is due one week from today.