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[Titi]

Oh Parkgirl-I was so happy to see the beginning of your post, and now so sorry!!!, , . I am glad you can find the hope-that you deffo can get pregnant-more hun.

 

[Moondance]

So........... I got ultra side tracked today by my idiot ex texting me some bullcrap saying he wanted me back (stfu Jack, not interested)....
But because of his harassment, I missed my doctors appointment completely and had to rebook. Got another appointment for tomorrow, but its not my regular doctor... my regular doctor is away for a holiday.

Am going to have to explain all this stuff again to a new doctor. I hate that!


Am also currently feeling really weepy. As soon as I realised I'd missed my doctors appointment, I broke down crying.
I've had friggen spotting for days. My CM is a greenish colour today, has the texture of egg white, but isn't so stretchy.
But according to what I've logged in my chart I've had this mega, extremely watery CM for almost 2 straight weeks. This isn't normal for me.... especially not when it starts ITCHING!!! Itchy va-jay-jay can't be good!

 

[Moondance]

Wow, it's been a very emotional weekend. I ended up testing Friday afternoon after my parents left town. Got a quick and , after taking two more tests, told DH. Saturday, DH and I really didn't know what to think. It almost didn't feel real. Sadly, I lost my little one earlier today. I woke up to bad back pain and cramping, so I knew something was wrong. I'm trying to look at the positive side of this. At least now I know that I am able to get pregnant.

Awww hon, so sorry.... Stupid annoying chemicals that keep hiting the girls on this thread.... Are you sure its a loss? Cramping might not necessarily be from a miscarriage, I've been cramping like a bitch the past 2 days, and I'm not pregnant or even close, I'm waiting on ovulation... but have been spotting, the back pain and cramping doesn't HAVE to mean its a loss, does it? Or is there more to it than that?
I hope its not...

 

[Tanikit]

Wow, you guys have been busy (while I have been sleeping) I did read it all, but sort of all mixed up and backwards so excuse me missing stuff and not getting it quite right.

Hi Titi! Glad you could join - you've already brought some fun to this thread from what I have read.

Parkgirl so sorry about what you have gone through

Moon sorry you missed your doc appointment - maybe the next doc will be even better and can sort out what is going on.

I've got a very quiet working week this week and lots of days off so trying to decide what to do with myself. I do want to go clothes shopping soon as it is still really cold and I could do with a jacket.

Squirrel thanks for the recipe - sounds delicious. I made up my own breakfast cereal yesterday as everything you can buy is either laced in sugar or generally high GI - hopefully what I made (just mixing normal cereals with fruit piees etc) will work out to be low GI. My sugars are slowly improving and my endocrinologist is back from holiday today so I hope I can get some advice now, but it is going better.

 

[honeybee28]

hey.. park hope you're ok sweetie. like you say, at least you know now that you can get pregnant.... thinking of you.xx

moon - that does NOT sound good lady, i guess it could be some kinda infection?

hey everyone, im so sleepy today really don't wanna go to work today!! Have a great day/eve ladies.xx

 

[LuckyD]

parkgirl - like Squirrel, I have already posted on the 30+ thread, but I wanted to say again how sorry I am and that I am thinking of you lots we are here if you need us

 

[LuckyD]

Holy Moly ladies, you have been busy! I thought I was up to date...and then had about four pages to read!

Titi - so lovely to see you here! Welcome!!!

Loving the garden talks....our garden is dying out as it's winter and we are planning to start planting on our new land (my OH has already put a whole pile of garlic in...) but the spinach and coriander are still going strong, and our leeks and carrots are going to be ready soon....

The people that have been staying on the land we bought were running an organic seedling business, and had a grow tunnel which we bought off them...I will attach a pic...it's ridiculously big but imagine all the yummy tomatoes and basil we can grow in there!!!

How are all the lovely TTHFers doing today/tonight?

A little birdy told me it's someones birthday.....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NIAMH!!!!

 

[CelticNiamh]

oh YUMMMMM squirrel that sounds so delicious. yeah i might give it a go with ham too. thanks for the recipe!! I love your ideas, you always bake something a little different, like your cone cupcakes. yummy yummy in my TUMMY!!!

Im 9dpo and havent spotted yet! Even though im sure im not preggo, the last few months i have started spotting at 8dpo so feel like this is an improvement. ive been taking maca, maybe thats what stopped the spotting (i think niamh said it stops spotting) AND its made my nails really strong.

xx

Yep it was me, I was getting some spotting and it was starting to get earlier before AF but has stopped now. I say because of the MACA for me may be the same for you or else its a BFP FX how did the blood results go? I think I missed that!

Wow, it's been a very emotional weekend. I ended up testing Friday afternoon after my parents left town. Got a quick and , after taking two more tests, told DH. Saturday, DH and I really didn't know what to think. It almost didn't feel real. Sadly, I lost my little one earlier today. I woke up to bad back pain and cramping, so I knew something was wrong. I'm trying to look at the positive side of this. At least now I know that I am able to get pregnant.

OH hun I'm so sorry, I'm sorry asking but is your bleeding heavy if you have any! recheck in a couple of days on the off chance that your one of those who get AF even when pregnant! oh you don't normally feel pregnant when you get your BFP it can take till 5 weeks for tiredness to kick in and around 6 for morning sickness so don't worry about that in future. your right though at least you know you can get Pregnant Nexilix felt the same way after hers and now she got a BFP this month.


Lucky ahhhh thanks so much hun, hard to believe I'm 35 today makes me a little sad I think I hate getting older but hey who doesn't PML hopefully this is my year sending to us all

Moon ouch and annoying sounds like a infection of some sort all right hope you get it sorted

 

[Ejay]

Parkgirl - just wanted to say I am realy sorry, sending you some super big hugs xx

have been reading posts but haven't had a chance to reply to all of them yet, gotta go to work will catch up later.

Hope everyone is ok. x

 

[Tanikit]

Happy Birthday Niamh - hope you have a really great day!

 

[Annamumof2]

ok girls i take it back i havent started yet, i have been spotting on and off sense saturday and when andy felt my cervix he said it was high and closed, so i dunno what that means but i am not getting my hopes up, so i am going to test i dunno tomorrow maybe depends how i feel.

 

[tryforbaby2]

Happy Birthday Niamh!!!

LuckyD, How are you? I always love the pics you post because they are always so pretty! I see your job keeps you on your toes, do you like it?
(Pssssst.....I still want to come camp out on your land with the TTHF ladies) hehe!

Honeybee, I amholding onto hope for you girlfriend! I love the 'no spotting' this cycle! Sounds really good!!!

Parkgirl, I am so sorry. Maybe it was me, but I didn't see any bleeding written on your post. Are you having back pain and cramping without bleeding? If so, I get occassional back pain (intense) and cramping since ovulation. I am holding out hope for you as well.

Moon, sounds like an infection to me. If it is just see whatever doctor you caninstead of giving 'that' the possiblity of getting worse.

Anna, I think maybe youre right and its time to start using your CBFM again.

I wouldv'e went crazy dealing what you and moon go through every single month!!!

 

[Annamumof2]

Happy Birthday Niamh!!!

LuckyD, How are you? I always love the pics you post because they are always so pretty! I see your job keeps you on your toes, do you like it?
(Pssssst.....I still want to come camp out on your land with the TTHF ladies) hehe!

Honeybee, I amholding onto hope for you girlfriend! I love the 'no spotting' this cycle! Sounds really good!!!

Parkgirl, I am so sorry. Maybe it was me, but I didn't see any bleeding written on your post. Are you having back pain and cramping without bleeding? If so, I get occassional back pain (intense) and cramping since ovulation. I am holding out hope for you as well.

Moon, sounds like an infection to me. If it is just see whatever doctor you caninstead of giving 'that' the possiblity of getting worse.

Anna, I think maybe youre right and its time to start using your CBFM again.

I wouldv'e went crazy dealing what you and moon go through every single month!!!

but i can't when i havent come on yet, i was surpost to come sunday but ive been spotting sense friday afternoon/sat morning on and off sense then and ive not had anything today, so not sure what to do now im on CD 60 tomorrow now

 

[Tanikit]

Anna that is crazy - must be so frsutrating - still hoping in the mdist of this that you get your BFP.

Tryfor by the time I get my first scan you'll be heading into the second trimester - wow, can't believe it! I also came across one of Nessicle's posts recently and see she is at 15 weeks - where does the time go?

Parkgirl have you had it confirmed that you have lost the pregnancy or is it suspicion based on your signs? either way - it sounds so hard what you are going through - let us know further what is going on. Thinking about you.

 

[Titi]

Okay-suggestions please. How do you TTHF! on a day when a family member who was a total beeeeeeeeyotch complaining about being pregnant for nine whole months and drank through her pregnancy and refused to put up one single bump pic (b/c she was too fat, wah!) is in labor and its all anyone else is talking of?

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

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This was a BIG weekend for our crew - so it is time for some big gif's!!

ParkGirl - I'm so sorry hon. I really hope you are hanging in there and truly taking some solace in your all too brief BFP, as proof that you and your OH can get pg. But I'm sure you must be very upset regardless. We are all thinking of you and hoping you are able to hang tough. Let me know if you'd like me to add your BFP to the roll call, of course I completely understand if you'd rather I didn't.

WELCOME TITI! I'm glad that the other ladies explained our disdain for "pop in BFPs" so well. We welcome anyone that wants to TTHF But explaining how to actually do that isn't so easy. One cycle we decided that you have to share your most embarrassing story after you ov. That was REALLY entertaining and it gave us something to laugh at rather than get all nervous about whether or not we've caught the egg. So that is sort of the jist of it - we are trying to support eachother without supporting the obsession, you know? We've also been sharing our favorite and least favorite words, along with fun vacation photos and stories. Oh, and we also shared the stories about how we met our OHs. So you've got lots of story telling to catch up on Totally kidding, but I am a big fan of the most embarrassing story in our lives. We tell each other minutia about CM so why not just put it all out on the table, you know?

Niamh - HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I'll be 35 in December Even though that does seem kinda old those are my two favorite numbers so they still make me happy. Your camping trip sounded like FUN! I'd love to go camping with kids - I've never done that! Except when I was a kid myself...

Squirrel - You've inspired me to bake bananna bread for DH tonight! I can't believe how rude your co-worker is being. My only thought is that maybe because he is a guy he thinks that is a subject you'd be interested in and he is just trying to strike up conversation? But that is a horrible way to do it. Like its been said, you should never ask a women when/if she is having a baby unless there is one waving from between her legs!!! I will ask my DH about a good telescope in that price range. My boss just got one too so I'll ask him as well.

Did I tell ya'll that I spent the night on the mountain where my hubby works Saturday? He showed us sunset and the full moon through the world's largest solar telescope. It was too friggin' cool! The atmosphere works like a prism when the sun sets and you see all sorts of colors around the corona (edge of the sun). He works during the day because he observes the sun. I'll attach a pic. We could actually see the outlines of saguaros (super big cactus) on the mountain the sun sat behind.

You gals were KILLING me with the smepping trauma stories!! I'm definitely a believer that doing it every day is not what you need to do to get pg. Every other day at the most ~ drugging your DH's is pretty darned funny too!

Lucky - did you ever get the snorks cartoon in NZ as a kid? It was a knock off version of the smurfs. snorkel is a super fun word! Love your "growing tube" - yet another hilarious kiwi phrase. We just call those green houses here - but I will call them growing tubes from here on out, because that is far better!

MyTurn - did I already ask you what your thesis topic is? I'd love to hear it again if my memory has failed (as usual)

Honey - so glad you aren't spotting and that you busted out a nom fest!

Vitex is chaste berry, right? Is it something you have to stop taking after ov?

Howdy TryFor!

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

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So these are our friends Ann & Milton, standing in front of the McMath Pierce Solar telescope. My DH is the telescope technician there. The other is sunset through the telescope.

 

[Titi]

Jaimie-er......what day is your birthday on?

I am pretty sure I am still the oldest ttc #1. : (

I love this thread-what great ideas! I read some of the beginning and quite a few back from recent but have a large chunk of the middle to go through now. Don't want to miss anything and will have to get busy with my contributions!

 

[Jaimie2Eyes]

My birfday is December 5th - am I older than you? Our anniversaries are close though, aren't they? Mine is Sept. 17, 2005.

 

[Titi]

My DH wants to know, Jaimie if you "did babymaking in the telescope?"