Last summer my MIL offered to take us on holiday. She paid for everything including lo passport. I really didnt want to go, I get on with her pretty well but a week with her is something else. I gave in as OH really wanted to go and I knew we wouldnt be able to afford a holiday ourselves. It was just as I expected, her trying to take over with Isaac and constantly telling us we were overprotective for keeping him from staying in the pool too long and avoiding certain foods (he was 10 months old at the time). It wasnt too bad, but I wouldnt want to do it again. But OH just told me she has offered to take us again and I dont want to go. Even if I wanted to, the only week my OH can have off is in september and I am a teacher so can only go in summer holidays. Because I teach in a college and still hold any off site classes over the summer, my OH and MIL seem to think I should be able to go anytime but they have a policy which I was told about when I started. I dont know how to turn this holiday down without sounding really ungrateful but going is not an option, a- I dont want to, b- I cant get time off work and c- we cant afford to as im on an hourly contract and wont get paid having used my holidays for our wedding next month.
What do i say???
What do i say???