My FOB has put me through such an emotional rollercoaster, i just dont think i can take anymore! im really struggling to come to terms with everything please help!
When i found out i was pregnant i had no idea what to do, me and FOB had broken up and i didnt want to face it alone... i decided the best thing to do would be to talk to him, so we met up and i told him, saying that i would like to keep it, and asked him what he wanted. He said he wanted me to keep it and he would be there for me and the baby and his exact words were 'he wasnt gonna run away'.
So he stuck to his word and he was very supportive coming to all the appointments with me, Telling me how excited he was and saying he was going to stay round and help look after the baby... up until im 7 months pregnant, he hadnt called me in a while, and he was ignoring all my calls and texts, i was getting very scared wondering what was going on! he FINALLY answers his phone after weeks of me trying and tells me it all got a bit much for him an he was scared?! what about me! i was terrified about going it alone! but tells me he will be there for me and the baby. So we arrange to meet up and discuss things... he didnt turn up, i arranged 3 times to meet up after and every time it was a different excuse.
So as hard as it was i decided to leave things and let him get in touch, he didnt at all, and when i had the baby i decided to call him to let him know, he seemed very excited he asked me to send him a picture to which he replied she was ''gorgeous and couldnt wait to meet her''. he came round to meet her when she was 2 days old, shes now 8 weeks and that was the only time he saw her
he doesnt ask about her or anything, just carrys on with his life like she doesnt even exist. Ive since found out he now has anther girlfriend who hes having another baby with, it breaks my heart to think hes going to be having another baby and be there for that child, whilst totally abandoning our daughter, its just such a struggle to accept it all i feel so hurt by someone i loved and trusted
When i found out i was pregnant i had no idea what to do, me and FOB had broken up and i didnt want to face it alone... i decided the best thing to do would be to talk to him, so we met up and i told him, saying that i would like to keep it, and asked him what he wanted. He said he wanted me to keep it and he would be there for me and the baby and his exact words were 'he wasnt gonna run away'.
So he stuck to his word and he was very supportive coming to all the appointments with me, Telling me how excited he was and saying he was going to stay round and help look after the baby... up until im 7 months pregnant, he hadnt called me in a while, and he was ignoring all my calls and texts, i was getting very scared wondering what was going on! he FINALLY answers his phone after weeks of me trying and tells me it all got a bit much for him an he was scared?! what about me! i was terrified about going it alone! but tells me he will be there for me and the baby. So we arrange to meet up and discuss things... he didnt turn up, i arranged 3 times to meet up after and every time it was a different excuse.
So as hard as it was i decided to leave things and let him get in touch, he didnt at all, and when i had the baby i decided to call him to let him know, he seemed very excited he asked me to send him a picture to which he replied she was ''gorgeous and couldnt wait to meet her''. he came round to meet her when she was 2 days old, shes now 8 weeks and that was the only time he saw her
he doesnt ask about her or anything, just carrys on with his life like she doesnt even exist. Ive since found out he now has anther girlfriend who hes having another baby with, it breaks my heart to think hes going to be having another baby and be there for that child, whilst totally abandoning our daughter, its just such a struggle to accept it all i feel so hurt by someone i loved and trusted 
