ugh my mum!!

[libbymarks198]

ugh so my mum was talking to my cousin and nana today saying how she bets $100 that by christmas ill be up the duff and i will ruin my life and heaps of crap about how OHs family is a bunch of criminals who just root everyone.

my cousin is the only one in the family who knows she just changed the subject but i am so pissed of now i feel like i dont ever want to tell my mum that i am pregnant, she can go and get f***ed for all im concerned i only see her once a week anyway it is not going to be a loss for me only for them and not seeing their grand child.

my cousin told me not to tell them until i am atleast 12 weeks so they cant suggest the unthinkable or march me down there.

im 19 going to be 20 when bubs is born i cant believe she still talks this way.

sorry pointless thread

 

[LittlePeople]

That's a bit mean of your mum

Maybe once she knows and she's used to it, she'll be happier?! x

 

[libbymarks198]

she will never be happy about it she will love the child and get over it but every now and then she will have a bitch and moan about it

 

[Pixxie]

You're nearly 20 what the hell does it have to do with her?! I wouldnt want to tell her either if she had said that xxx

 

[QuintinsMommy]

my whole family thought i was ruining my life, but now they love quintin, and my life is so much better. hopefully she has a change of heart

 

[EmyDra]

My ex had the most awful mother who was always saying cruel things. The whole family cut her out in the end and the grandchildren she has are told she lives in another country.

You're an adult. I would be tempted to not tell her at all, let her find out from a friend or relative, don't show her the respect of telling her.
If she wants to make up stupid 'bets' about her daughters life then I personally would want her as uninvolved as possible.

 

[seducts]

I think everyone's parents act like this at first. It's because having a baby limits what you can and can't do, such as working, school/uni but as soon as the baby is here they'll forget all of that and they'll regret saying it. It's not nice of her to say stuff like that especially about your OHs family. TBH, I'd talk to her about it and tell her you'd appreciate it if she didn't slag off your baby's dad, he's going to be there for the rest of your life and it's very disrespectful of her. She should keep her opinions to herself, it's not nice to have your family talking about you behind your back.

Other than that, just keep your chin up and stay strong *hugs*

Dani x

 

[amygwen]

My whole family was really upset when they found out I was pregnant, thinking I had ruined my life. Trust me, my mom is the biggest moaner ever! But now everyone in my family loves Kenny.. hopefully they will come around.

 

[libbymarks198]

she is going to nut it, shes moaning now and she does not even no i am pregnant yet lol.

ahh its going to be so much fun telling her lol

 

[mayb_baby]

she is going to nut it, shes moaning now and she does not even no i am pregnant yet lol.

ahh its going to be so much fun telling her lol

it's your life hun My mum went mental when she found out as I had a mc in jan and I was supposed to be for uni this year!

But when I hit 17 weeks she started buying clothes and bits, she is delighted now Im having a boy and is excited!

Hope it turns out ok for you xoxo

 

[Sophiiie]

i'm so sorry she's been like that can't be a nice thing to hear from your mum, I really hope she comes round for you x

 

[Burchy314]

she is going to nut it, shes moaning now and she does not even no i am pregnant yet lol.

ahh its going to be so much fun telling her lol

it's your life hun My mum went mental when she found out as I had a mc in jan and I was supposed to be for uni this year!

But when I hit 17 weeks she started buying clothes and bits, she is delighted now Im having a boy and is excited!

Hope it turns out ok for you xoxo

My mom didn't go mental when I told her but she was really upset and never really brought it up but now she is super excited. When we go to Babies R Us she goes crazy. Just going around sayin "AWWWWWWWW OMG THIS IS SOOOOO CUTE"

I hope things turn out well with you and your mom. I wish you the best with everything

 

[xtinydancerx]

It's not pointless and I understand 100 percent where you are coming from, My mother is the same way and I am 20 will be 21 in June, Out of the house, She pays none of my bills, DH and I both have steady stable jobs and I have 2 months of school left before I graduate. I have not yet told her that I am PG and I know it's going to be a battle. In fact she has been up my ass for 3 weeks to get back on BC which I haven't been on for a year because DH and I were trying. She is just very controlling, the only thing you can do is what is right for you and your child and if she can't accept that then that is on her. You can't live your life trying to make her happy, you need to do what makes you and your child happy.

 

[JaneyRetro]

My Mum was really upset when she found, said I was 'ruining my life' ectect, i think she's come round to it a bit, but doesn't talk to me about it or mention unless i do, unless its something negative. But im sure she'll come around soon. Parents are an absolute pain, but really im sure deep down inside they just want the best, even though their wrong 99% of the time. Good luck with everything and congratulations

 

[Yazz_n_bump]

Oh honey. When you tell her she may change their minds.
I told mine and mine were lovely about it, when last time around (ended in MMC) they marched me down to have a abortion.
They may be okay you never know.