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[Tanara]

My dad has to piss on everything, misery loves company, and thats my dad in a nut shell. He cant even just be happy for us.

Hes throwing a fit about the name we have choice for our little girl, honestly isnt this my child isnt it my decition to make weather she is named after someone or not, shouldnt he just be happy for us. He was completely supportive right up until he found out the name..

Hes mad because she is named in a way after my mom (Mom- Fay and our daughters name is Fayth) and he says that she doesnt deserve to have the babie named after her and insits we name our daughter something else. I have had her name picked out for 14 weeks, im not changing it now, we love her name. Im so pissed off that he really feels he has a say in what i name my child. ugh. I dont talk to my dad ofton just once in a blue moon when he decides to call due to some personal family matters, and every time i talk to him makes me want to ignore the next call.

I just dont understand why he just cant be happy.

 

[vaniilla]

I'm sorry that he's beeing such a miserable ass, I have a few relatives like that and honestly its best ignoring them when they go into one of their little displays of attention seeking as I call it, he and anyone else for that matter have no right in arguing over what you name your daughter, don't let it ruin your happiness, just see it as people like that will always find something to moan about, if it hadn't been the name it would have been something else

 

[Tanara]

He hate my mom thats the only reason its a big deal.. I just hate that he has to be a prick about something thats suppose to be a beautiful time in my life.

 

[his.baby.mama]

Don't Let Him Get You Down!! I have Family members like that, thankfully it's my extended family! It's your child, you choose the name. And besides even if he doesn't like your mom, he can't deny that she had you, & if you want to thank her in that way, then so be it. He'll get over it, and if he doesn't so be it. No one wants a negative nancy around their children. Or at least I won't. Anyways Cheer Up & Remember Your Baking A Little Girl In There, No Need To Stress Over Things Your Father Has No Control Over!

 

[Tanara]

I know but family is very important to me, seeing as i never had much of one, i know he will come around and honestly i dont care what he says as i wont see him til shes about 3 months old anyways. My dad just treated me like shit as a kid cause i reminded him of my mom and i dont want him to do that same to her.

 

[his.baby.mama]

Then Don't Let Him Treat Her That Way. Easier Said Then Done I Know, But "No One Can Make You Feel Inferior Without Your Consent- E.R." Just Watch How He Treats Her, You May Have to sit down with him and explain to him that you, nor fayth is your mother. And if it gets to the point where he treats her like shit, like he did to you, then focus on your little family. My parents had to focus on my sisters and I because my grandma treated us like shit compared to the other grandkids. Sometimes you have to do what's best for your children. But i'd talk to him, explain your feelings and he might just turn around. My parents talked to my grandma about it, and growing up it was nice to have a grandparent that acted like they cared. Good Luck. I REALLY hope things work out for you. & For Fayth!

 

[x__amour]

I hope things work out for you! But your baby, your name! Simple!

 

[Tanara]

I definatly agree, hes not a person we see ofton, he doesnt babysit or anything, so i would see the way he treats her, hes amazing with my son. I just know how he is, but i have no problem confronting my dad at all. We dont have the type of relationship where either of us are scared to hurt the others feelings, its a very tough love relationship. I dont want to limit him to seeing her but if it comes down to it i will. My kids are all the matter and their happiness. End of story.

 

[his.baby.mama]

See You Got It Down. No need to worry. You will get through anything and I truly believe that, mainly because your smart enough to put your kids first. I sadly know people who don't and that's sad. Good Luck Again!!

 

[Sophiiie]

it's not fair at all that he's being like that, this is your little girls name & you get to choose her name because you're her mummy! like you said.. i'm sure you don't want to cut him out of her life, but if he starts treating her the way he treated you then cut him out of the equation xx

 

[Eabha'sMum]

You know he has no right, and it is your decision... Fayth is a beautiful name, and the fact it means something is speacial.
xxx