xbababellyx
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Okay so I'm probably the last person in the world to know this but i've only just found out that private adoption in the UK in illegal??! WHY??? ![Growl :growlmad: :growlmad:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/growlmad.gif)
I considered giving my baby up for adoption a few weeks ago when I first found out I was pregnant, it wasn't that I didn't want this baby but I knew that someone else could possibly give him/her a better life. I know in America, you can have a say in what kind of family your child goes too and you may get to meet the parents before you give birth and get to know them a little. I know if I was to give my child up it would have to be to a couple that have been TTC to conceive for a while and I would like to be able to meet them at least. The English government needs to understand that just because you may want to give your child up, DOES NOT mean that you don't care about who he/she goes to! And by them placing your child into foster care while they try to find adoptive parents for them, isn't that defeating the object of wanting them to have immediate stability?? Of course people in the UK should be given the chance to adopt but shouldn't private adoption also be an option to everyone too?
![Growl :growlmad: :growlmad:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/growlmad.gif)
I considered giving my baby up for adoption a few weeks ago when I first found out I was pregnant, it wasn't that I didn't want this baby but I knew that someone else could possibly give him/her a better life. I know in America, you can have a say in what kind of family your child goes too and you may get to meet the parents before you give birth and get to know them a little. I know if I was to give my child up it would have to be to a couple that have been TTC to conceive for a while and I would like to be able to meet them at least. The English government needs to understand that just because you may want to give your child up, DOES NOT mean that you don't care about who he/she goes to! And by them placing your child into foster care while they try to find adoptive parents for them, isn't that defeating the object of wanting them to have immediate stability?? Of course people in the UK should be given the chance to adopt but shouldn't private adoption also be an option to everyone too?