Ultrasound ahead a week? im so stressed

[kurbie]

I had an ultrasound on March 4 dating me at 13 weeks exact. I was kinda of shocked because I thought I was 12 weeks (based on LMP). The sonographer said it could be a week off (mind you my blatter wasn't completely full and for the next hour she had me drink alot and kept rushing me in between other patients to try and get measurement and my baby was moving around alot). On April 9 according to my HCG levels I was 17w and 6 days. On April 23 I saw two dates on the screen: 19w1d and 19w5d. The 19w1day coresponds with my LMP and thats what the sonographer told me I am. Also, I'm being seen by 2 doctors and I get different fundal measurements.

Problem: I had sex December 14, 17 and 24. 3 guys. I'm hoping it's the third guy's baby. One doctor says no, but my family doctor says its still a possibility.

I'm pretty sure my period started december 9 or 10 because it always falls every 4 weeks around the same dates as the previous months. To prove I have a 4 week cycle, I went all the way back to June, and as I found, my period fell every 4 weeks. I know they say ovulation is mid cycle but I also know its possible to ovulate early. I asked my doctor and he said its not likely I ovulated on december 17 and that (this was last week) I was in my 24 week not 25th.

So after all this, what are the chances that guy #3 has at being the dad? He's the only one who still talks to me and says if it's his than he will step up and be a dad.

 

[ToughhGal]

If your period started on 9/10 and you had sex on the 14th that seems less likely to me. Im not an expert though.

the 17th is likely but so is the 24th. I always ovulated around days 15-17. When I concieved im pretty sure i ovulated day 17.

I would just look into paternity tests asap. Even if the others don't talk to youthey have to opt in a paternity test for child support legality. Or go to jail. Well, that is how Tennessee law was the last time I heard

good luck and hope you get what you want

 

[krisum]

Here is a chart based on your lmp starting dec 9 th. https://www.babymed.com/pregnancy-d...ivf_days=3&MM=12&DD=9&YYYY=2013&showResults=1

It says your likely conception date is dec 18-23, based on a 28 day cycle. If you lmp started dec 10 it would be pushed back a day to dec 19-24.

It really depends how regular you are and how long your cycle is, if you hadn't been keeping exact track for quite a few months prior I'd say it would be impossible to predict if it was guy 2 or 3. IMO these are the two most likely based on you lmp.

If you have shorter cycles prob number 2, longer cycles prob number 3. This could be even just plus or minus 1-2 days from a standard 28 day cycles , assuming you are always regular.

I hope for you and your baby's sake it turns out yo be the guy who wants to step up I would def only rely on paternity testing though to be certain!

 

[kurbie]

thanks, yea im getting a paternity test done. and my cycles are always 4 weeks. I went through text messages and facebook messages and I remember my period being last week of june because I left for jamaica june 29 so i know it started that week. and with all my diggin, since then it has falling every 4 weeks. so theyre regular thanks for the input!

 

[kurbie]

im not in Tennessee lol. im in Canada, i was told if they dont want to do a paternity then i cant force them...my response to that was that is complete BS cause if that was true, theyred be alot of men getting away with no consequences

 

[CastawayBride]

im not in Tennessee lol. im in Canada, i was told if they dont want to do a paternity then i cant force them...my response to that was that is complete BS cause if that was true, theyred be alot of men getting away with no consequences

They can be court ordered, until then they do not have to comply...

 

[Gnomer]

I'm pretty certain that they have to comply in the UK too, I know it's illegal to do without consent. One of the pitfalls of having multiple possible fathers I suppose.

I'd say 2 and 3 would be most likely, but you won't know unless you have a paternity test with them being so close together.

 

[RcdM]

You could at least do a paternity test right now with guy #3. That way you'd either know for sure it was him and not have to bother with the other guys, or find out it's not him and at least rule him out, knowing you'll have to try to work with the other two to get them to comply. Good luck! I hope it's #3 as well!

 

[kurbie]

how do i do a paternity test now?

 

[Brightxeyes]

Yeah I've heard you can do paternity tests before hand but I'm sure to get the DNA it's a little more intrusive than waiting for baby to come out.
Definitely speak to your doctor and then if you can get it done before baby arrives you can prepare

 

[RcdM]

I'm not exactly sure in Canada - but a friend of mine got one here in the US, so I know they can be done. I've heard it can be just a blood test but I'm not 100% sure. The other tests are invasive as they take a sample from the placenta I think, but I would search online and I'm sure you can find some more information about in for where you live.

 

[ToughhGal]

I was using Tennessee as an example sorry