Unexpected bfp???

[Laurabub84]

I feel really bad posting this when there are women here trying hard to get pregnant but I’d really appreciate some opinions. My dh and I are not ttc. If I’m honest I would love another baby but dh doesn’t so it wouldn’t be welcome news to him. To be honest I would be shocked if it was real because I didn’t think it was really possible, but I guess not entirely impossible if I was to be, just really unlikely. Anyway, I took a test last night (accu news brand from home bargains) because I’ve been feeling a little nauseous the last few days especially after eating and that makes me feel more sickly. But then last night I had a migraine. Headaches usually indicates af will come. I had 2 test left over and just decided to try one because of the sicky feeling and I was pretty sure I could see a faint line. This morning when I look it dried with a definite faint line. As I said I’m not convinced it’s real really so was just wondering if any of you ladies have used these test before and are they known for false lines or bad evaps? I have one left so I’ll take that when I next need to use the bathroom but knowing how dh would take this I’m really nervous because I wouldn’t know how on earth I’d be able to tell him. We have 5 children already and our youngest is only 8 months old.

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Definitely see the line! I use these tests and find them fab, I've never had a line on them unless I'm pregnant x

 

[Bevziibubble]

I see it. Good luck

 

[Deethehippy]

I can see the line but I wouldn't trust it until I had confirmed it on another test...I've been stung by all sorts of tests and faint lines! I really hope this is a positive though and it goes on to get darker

 

[Laurabub84]

Thank you ladies. Just took the other and it’s negative. I didn’t think it was really possible to be and with the headaches there my usual sign that af is on the way. Feel silly making this post now, lol. Relieved because dh wouldn’t have been happy, but must admit I do feel a little disappointed after that first test. I’m already broody again . Weird because I saw the faint line right away last night. But also relieved because I have my 1st covid jab on Wednesday and if I had have been then I wouldn’t have wanted to have it just in case.

 

[Deethehippy]

Awww, I'm sorry...it's hard when you are torn both ways. Maybe another little bub may be on the cards for the future? Never say never. x

 

[Laurabub84]

Thank you @Deethehippy. I would never say no to one more but I don’t think I could ever bring myself to ask him again in the future. It took a long time for him to agree to our last and I felt horrible all that time because I wanted it so desperately but he didn’t want anymore. I couldn’t put that pressure on him again and I got myself in a bad place over that, that’s why he agreed in the end because he couldn’t stand seeing me like that. I have 5 gorgeous kids that I’m so grateful for. I think I’ll just be forever broody because I love babies and pregnancy so much. It’s hard to close the door on this part of my life but I guess I have to at some point. I’m not upset about this test being negative. I knew deep down that first one wasn’t right and like you I have been stung so many times with false positives in the past. It was more the worry that I had my jab booked that I tested really, just to be 100% and of cause it had to show something