maybe it was a strong implantation bleeding? i'd avoid tampons in this case as it's harder to estimate how much you're bleeding and the color of it as well, plus if you are pregnant, using tampons can increase the risk of infections.
in any case, considering your first post, i think pregnant or not, this little event (unsure about being pregnant or not) really showed you how much both you & OH want a baby and that whatever your current situation is, it is not unresolvable to the point of not having a baby now anyway
in any case, considering your first post, i think pregnant or not, this little event (unsure about being pregnant or not) really showed you how much both you & OH want a baby and that whatever your current situation is, it is not unresolvable to the point of not having a baby now anyway