urgent advice

[pippen]

hi, my names claire and im new to this sight, i was looking online for some advice and came across this website.
please dont judge as im scared and just need someone to talk to and some advice.

iv got a 1year old son, im a single mum and his dad does not see him, we were married for 2years then he left after we discovered i was pregnant, i havent seen or heard from him since.
i have got used to being a single mum and happy with my little boy.

this is my issue, i had a one night stand roughly a week ago, it was the first since my husband. i didnt enjoy it, as i felt strange, i cried after and decided to not see him again. a condom was used. i bleed alittle for around 3-4days after and i just assumed it was because it was close to 2years since i last slept with a man. now today i had a slight bleed again. i am so scared i am pregnant, infact in my head i have convienced myself i am. im feeling how i did with my son, im cramping, tingles in my legs, weird dreams and when i sniff my nose feels like iv been swimming, like my smell is inhanced. im so scared, my period isnt due for another week. but i do know if i was pregnant i couldnt cope, for lots of reasons. the backlass of having another baby and it not seeing its father, money, i couldnt do a pregnancy alone again, with another child
as im writing this i feel weird bubbles in my tummy, i just know inside i am pregnant.
i have deleted the mans number after i told him i didnt want to see him again so i have no way of contacting him to first of ask if the condom split.
please someone tell me if they ever convienced themselves they had been pregnant and werent.
i cant talk to anyone about this as i know my friends and family wont understand

 

[davidjoemum]

Hi there I didn't want to read and run!i had that so many times (not one night stand lol) but paranoia about being pregnant.i don't think it's possible to have any symptoms week after intercourse Hun I think you are scared and your head playing tricks on you!just wait for your period which might be late due to stress you going through right now!i hope you calm down and everything will be ok for you!
Welcome to B&B we not here to judge you Hun!

 

[pippen]

thank you for your advice. im hoping your right, and its my mind playing tricks, i honestly have never felt so scared, even coping with pregnancy alone.

 

[Dezireey]

The only way you will have peace of mind is to just get a test done as soon as you can when your period is due or is overdue. Women worry about these things but the worry can be eliminated or confirmed with a bit of patience. Your body can play tricks on you when you desperately want to be pregnant or you desperately dont want to be. I would stress out like you if I thought I had another baby coming along without their Dad again, so I understand your worries. Try to deal with the problem only IF it actually happens. For now , you dont know, so stay cool.

 

[xxsteffyxx]

didn't want to read and run, get yourself a test and do it. Unfortunetly we're not pregnancy tests and we cannot tell you if you're pregnant or not sweety! Good luck and keep us updated xx

 

[LadyRoy]

Just wanted to say that if you have a contract phone then you can find the number off the bill

 

[justhoping]

hi, my names claire and im new to this sight, i was looking online for some advice and came across this website.
please dont judge as im scared and just need someone to talk to and some advice.

iv got a 1year old son, im a single mum and his dad does not see him, we were married for 2years then he left after we discovered i was pregnant, i havent seen or heard from him since.
i have got used to being a single mum and happy with my little boy.

this is my issue, i had a one night stand roughly a week ago, it was the first since my husband. i didnt enjoy it, as i felt strange, i cried after and decided to not see him again. a condom was used. i bleed alittle for around 3-4days after and i just assumed it was because it was close to 2years since i last slept with a man. now today i had a slight bleed again. i am so scared i am pregnant, infact in my head i have convienced myself i am. im feeling how i did with my son, im cramping, tingles in my legs, weird dreams and when i sniff my nose feels like iv been swimming, like my smell is inhanced. im so scared, my period isnt due for another week. but i do know if i was pregnant i couldnt cope, for lots of reasons. the backlass of having another baby and it not seeing its father, money, i couldnt do a pregnancy alone again, with another child
as im writing this i feel weird bubbles in my tummy, i just know inside i am pregnant.
i have deleted the mans number after i told him i didnt want to see him again so i have no way of contacting him to first of ask if the condom split.
please someone tell me if they ever convienced themselves they had been pregnant and werent.
i cant talk to anyone about this as i know my friends and family wont understand

any sex you can get pregnant but after having sex after one week you wouldnt know, you wouldnt feel all that and it has not even implanted...sounds like your under alot of stress right now and that is probably what your feeling......wait weeks and test...you wont be a able to know till then and definetly wont be feeling all THAT AFTER one week after having sex