ajsmummy86
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Just need to vent! A lot has gone on this pregnancy between me and the babys dad which has basically ended up with horrible things being said on both sides and me not moving in with him. Anyways we have sort of sorted things out and are back together but not living together, he lives 100 miles away but once baby is born we are hoping to get a house and live together. He doesn't get on with my mum anymore because he blames her for me not going back saying that she shouldn't have had an opinion and kept her nose out, my argument is though that if a mum sees a child of hers upset shes going to have an opinion. She banned him from her house for a while because she thought it would be unfair to have a bad atmosphere around my other two boys and it would be best to let everyone calm down first, i agreed. The babys dad hasn't been over for scans or midwifes appointments and at first was saying he didn't want anything to do with the baby so my mum has been there for me throughout the whole thing. When i was talking to the dad lastnight and told him that my mum was going to be at the birth too he totally flipped out saying he didnt want her there he didnt want to see her and stuff. Now im stuck and dont know what to do, i want them both there but he just wont have any of it 2 weeks off giving birth and he's making things awkward for me how am i supposed to tell my mum who has been there for me that she cant be at the birth. I think he's being unfair, my mum is willing to draw a line under it all and start again for the sake of the kids i dont understand why he can't. sorry for the long message i'm just so mad and needed to vent x