Livebythesea
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My brothers and I were all big babies. My sis in law had two ten pound babies with a third degree tear from front to back. My friend's friend had 8 reconstructive surgeries from a bad tear, and is still not right.
At 30 weeks babies are usually 2.5 to 3.5 I've read and at my 30 week sono last week my baby was already almost 5 pounds. The sonogram lady said they may change my due date.
I am VERY afraid of vaginal tearing and wondering if I have options that won't harm the baby. I just switched doctors and she said that they don't induce women unless the baby is 11 or 12 pounds! Do I have a say in this? Is it safe for baby to ask for early induction? When I first went to this new office I was asked what kind of delivery option I wanted, including C-section, which I declined but am now thinking about it.
My mother struggled with incontinence for many years and I'm sure it was because of her large baby vaginal deliveries.
Please let me know your thoughts. Many thanks
At 30 weeks babies are usually 2.5 to 3.5 I've read and at my 30 week sono last week my baby was already almost 5 pounds. The sonogram lady said they may change my due date.
I am VERY afraid of vaginal tearing and wondering if I have options that won't harm the baby. I just switched doctors and she said that they don't induce women unless the baby is 11 or 12 pounds! Do I have a say in this? Is it safe for baby to ask for early induction? When I first went to this new office I was asked what kind of delivery option I wanted, including C-section, which I declined but am now thinking about it.
My mother struggled with incontinence for many years and I'm sure it was because of her large baby vaginal deliveries.
Please let me know your thoughts. Many thanks