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very confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cozmos

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hi im hoping someone can help shed some light on this situation?
i was meant to have a dnc yesterday im meant to be 8 weeks and measuring 6.5 weeks with only a yolk sac visable and no fetal pole or heartbeat, the yolksac last week was 9mm completely abnormal which is why i was goin to get the dnc.
i had a mmc in may with twins that was dragged out until i was 12 weeks and do not want to go through that again!!
anyway they gave me a scan first, found the sac and the yolk sac had shrunk to 4.5 mm and looked completely normal.....and there was another yolk sac accross the other side in the same gestational sack that looked smaller but definately there, still no evidence of fetal life though. 3 sonographers later and then the doctor shows up who was goin to do the procedure on me and said he will not have this on his conscience and to come back next week for another ultrasound. he believes that anything can happen as theres been so much change, not to get my hopes up because i am meant to be 8 weeks and not 6+.
all the staff there were confused as were we, if this turns out well then this will all be worth it, has anyone ever heard of anything like this happening with good or bad outcomes i actually feel a bit like a freak show right now...very confused indeed x
 
Sorry I have not heard about anything similar. Did not want to read and run. Good luck to you...and I hope for the best.
 
im drained thinking about it, roll on monday so i can find out either way.
 
Wow! Kinda crazy.
I have no experience with this but I wanted to say good luck and I have my fxd for you.
 
Aww I hope all goes ok with your scan. Thoughts will be with you. Let us know how u get on xxx
 
thanks so much ill keep yous posted 3 more days x
 
Good luck! I made sure I had a second opinon scan before my d&c because I just didn't want to rush into anything if there was a possibility things could be okay. For me the scan confirmed the first one, that the baby didn't grow since my first 6 weeks scan. I opted for a d&c because my body was still progressing without the baby (uterus measured 9 weeks) and I had a natural m/c before and it was so painful. I really hope you don't have to go through this but if you do know there are wonderful people here to talk to.
 
thanks its hard goin all this waiting, having the miscarriage at home freaks me out so much because id hate my 7 year old too see anythin like that, shed be scarred for life. this week will be the fourth scan and i should be 9 weeks by mon, im booked in for tues and have booked the week off to recover.
im sorry youv been through this more times than enough also, the waiting can really play with your head.
the smallest part of me believes in some kind of miracle, the common sence part is taking over and tellin me to be realistic tho.....damn sensible side lol, x
 
Got no advice really hun but wanted to wish you the best of luck. Will have my fingers crossed for you x
 
had the dnc god knows what was going on in there but there was no baby. does anyone know how to get that clicker off my profile pls x
 
So sorry to hear that hun hope you're ok.

If you click on user CP at the top of the page, scroll down and click on edit signature you should be able to remove the ticker.

Sending big hugs xxx
 
had the dnc god knows what was going on in there but there was no baby. does anyone know how to get that clicker off my profile pls x

Sorry to hear your outcome hun - I have removed your ticker for you xxxxx
 

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