I have been trying to conceive for 5 months for baby #4. Problem is my husband was on anabolic steroids for two years. He stopped using them two months ago when he realized he was producing low sperm during ejaculation. So now he has no sex drive and is lucky if he can ejaculate twice a month if lucky. So If I am ovulating and we do the bding and he can't ejaculate during the deed! I have to wait to the next cycle to try again. this is so frustrating because our third child we conceived in three months. He is finally going to see a uroligist next month. hopefully they will have answers for us.