Very nervous

[Numpty79]

Hi all I'm new to this but hope I can find some people in the same position as me!
I have been trying for a baby for 18 months now I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks in may.I am now pregnant again but only 4 weeks. I am so scared of having another miscarriage, I want to tell everyone I'm pregnant but holding back just incase. I do feel different this time my symptoms are stronger but still don't want to get excited.
Has anyone else felt different this time with there pregnancy or is it just in my head. I'm not sure how to feel and would love to chat with other mum's to be who have had a similar experience.

Thank you

 

[87lianne]

hello i lost a baby at 13 weeks in april, thought i was 16 weeks but midwife couldnt pick up heartbeat so had a D&C. I got pregnant straight away and am almost 19weeks pregnant. At first i was constantly worrying cus my pregnancy was so different i have had next to nothing symptoms this time and was worrying i would have another m/c. but everything is fine so far but i was the same i didnt tell everyone untill i was about 15 weeks. I think the thing that honestly made me more confident was investing in a doppler. at 13weeks i was so paranoid about it happening again i bought a doppler on ebay and since then i havent really had many worrys. Good luck i hope all goes well this time x

 

[Numpty79]

Thanks for you reply, I'm sure my friend has one if those I might ask if I can borrow it. Good luck with your pregnancy your scan must be soon bet you can't wait.

 

[LucyJ]

Hey,

I am in a similar situation to you I suffered a mmc the end of march this year we found out at our 12 week scan that our little one had died at 10 weeks it had taken us nearly a year to get pregnant the first time and we had an early scan at 6 weeks saw a heartbeat and everything only to loss our little one this was our first pregnancy. We waited 1 cycle and then started to try again I had a few problems along the way but all was ok and after 5 months of trying I got my BFP this month. I am 4 weeks and 5 days pregnant I am so scared but trying to remain positive and take one day at a time.

This pregnancy does feel different but I cant put my finger on exactly why I dont have a huge amount of symptoms which worries me abit but my dr said not to worry about that.

I really hope we both have successful pregnancies.

 

[Numpty79]

Thanks for your reply.
My only symptoms are weeing constantly and breast are very tender and yesterday the smell of eggs was making me gag and I normally love eggs. I'm hopeing this is all good though.
Yes I definitely hope we do fingers and toes crossed.

 

[Peril]

Congratulations!

I too feel different this time round, symptoms are definitely worse with this one! ... I also on the whole do not have the bad feeling about the pregnancy that i did with the last two, though in saying that i still have bouts of doubt and paranoia!

I still have not told many people, just mum, dad, bro and SIL, basically those who i know i can get support from! I have a scan in 2 weeks, and intend to tell the rest if all looks good at that scan xxx

 

[zoe87]

hi sorry to hear about your loss. I had been ttc for 2 years including 2 mc. With the pregnancies where i mc i had strong symptoms but with this pregnancy ive had none i didnt even feel pregnant at all upon until i felt baby moving. I guess pregnancy affects people in diff ways. and i understand just how worrying it can be after having a mc. The best thing i can suggest u do is to take it easy and if you have any worrys or questions asks your midwife or GP even if its what u think is a silly question x

 

[cgweegee]

Hello and congratulations! I had an mc in November and am now 12 weeks pregnant. With my mc I had very bad heartburn from the very start and just a general feeling of something not quite right. This time around it has been different so far. I had ms for maybe 2 weeks and going potty a lot more but overall I feel great. Kind of a lack of symptoms now but that's how it was with my two older children. I worry every single day but so far so good! Good luck.

 

[Numpty79]

Thanks all for your reply's it sounds stupid but you do feel like your by yourself but thanks to these forums you know your not. Good luck all x x