Very stressed out.

Supa

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*Sigh* where do I begin?

I just got a call that my uncle who has been fighting cancer for 7 years just passed away

My mom just found out I was pregnant and she's been fussing at me , plus she is completely distraught about her brothers passing so i've been trying to comfort her

When my father finds out he'll more than likely kick me out

My OH has no job and doesn't seem like he really cares about finding one

Plus for some reason he felt the need to to be "honest" with his ex girlfriend and tell her I was pregnant. Now that completely pissed me off because she is very crazy , she has been calling and calling his phone non stop since they broke up and she threatens to kill herself, etc. Well she actually found out who I was and where I work and said she was going to kill me, she said she would come to my job and slice my face.
Why the hell would he put this on me?

Please pray for me , I need it.
 
I'm so sorry you are in this situation! It sounds like a lot to handle. I assume you are still a teen? If you are, your father can't kick you out of the house without getting in trouble by law. Your OH sounds like he is still trapped by his ex or still has feelings for her.. sorry to say. I don't know why he would have to tell her about your pregnancy. It has nothing to do with honesty. Infact, it is almost weird to go and tell your ex of a pregnancy. Because, I would think the ex would A. either not care or B. be so jealous. Clearly, this girl still has feelings for him and the fact that it is so obvious I could only think he would make her involved is because he has feelings too. Did he have to be honest so they could continue their secrete love affair? I just dont get it. Personally, I am very protective of my unborn baby, so if any person was threatning to hurt me while I am carrying my angel I would call the police if I had some solid proof. Any person who threatens to end their own life and hurt others has issues... Don't let your little one get caught in the middle of all this drama. I hope everything works out for you.
 
Aww I'm sorry! Maybe he will just be upset and let you live there! Will any of your friends or other family take you in if your dad does kick you out? I have no idea what to do about the ex girlfriend situation....but if someone was threatening to kill me slice my face ect id be telling them to knock it off or id be calling the police. That's just not right...sounds like that girl needs a trip to a psych ward... sorry your going through this! You have my prayers and thoughts.
 

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