Wanting help!

[azhley123]

Hello everyone, I subscribed to this page since I'm in big trouble and do not know what to do... I just found out yesterday that I'm pregnant. There thing is, my boyfriend and I just had broken up and we slept together just twice and that was enough, he wanted to get back with me but when I told him he reacted really shocked, he just grabbed his head and say no, we messed up, what we should no (not really talking to me) after a while of not-talking, we asked what I wanted to do, I said I wanted the baby and that I wanted him to be part of our family. He response was that how could we found a family with the relationship that we had, fighting all the time and not really communicating between us. After everything he decided that he will try his best to make things work and move in with me....... But that he wanted the rest of the month for himself , to pretend that this didn't happened and celebrate his birthday with his friends and then we can move on, I agreed.... But I'm really scare to be this month completely alone with this big secret in my hands, I understand that he needs time but, the whole month? What should I do or say? Thank you...

 

[DaisyDreamer]

Communication can be fixed between the two of you! It sounds like he might need some time to process it, but maybe during the month you can invite him to any appointments or scans that may come up? Just try to include him as much as you can and leave it to be his choice to be a part of it. Then you can decide if the relationship is worth growing.
In the meantime do you have a friend or a confidant you can speak to? Are you close with any of your parents or an aunt or grandma? GL dear hope everything works out well for you