wanting to try again

[aaiimmee]

is is bad wanting to try for another baby only 1 week after mis cariage... im worried its going to happen again n also that i am only thinking of doing it as a replacement... im just so confused... has anyone been through the same thing? or even just got some advice id really love to hear it...

 

[Alexas Mommy]

I have no advice but I think it is pretty normal...

 

[aaiimmee]

thank you

 

[mrs.beanz]

It is not bad to want another one so soon and completely normal. I wanted to be pregnant again the day after my miscarriage. I felt like that was the only thing that was going to make the heartbreak go away. I am currently trying again and do fear another loss but I know that feeling wont go away until I am holding my healthy baby. It is a bumpy road and you will have alot of emotions and thoughts along the way and they are all normal because it is what your heart is feeling.
Sorry for your loss

 

[JASMAK]

I know what you mean.

 

[Rumpskin]

I was told to wait 3 months until we tried again of which we did. This helped me enormously but at the beginning I felt that it was just too long a time to wait.

Everyone is different and it is a personal choice.

 

[moomoo]

We tried again straight away, but i cannot explain the grief that hits you when first af arrives...for me this was worse than i felt just after the m/c. There is every chance that you will fall pregnant straight away though, so i think it is worth trying. No one will ever think its a replacement...its human nature to want to be pregnant again xx

 

[cerilou]

I am so sorry for your loss.

I know exactly what you mean. I had a mc in July and it helped me to jump straight back into ttc. I fell pregnant straight away in August but mc again in September. The grief was overwhelming but I wanted to try again. My OH persuaded me to leave it a month before trying again just so I could get my head together. We tried again the following month and here I am almost 6 weeks pregnant.

Yes I do panic occasionally but I am so overjoyed to be pregnant again, I just want to enjoy it. I also feel what will be, will be.

Whether you decide to try straight away or wait is up to you. It's such a personal decision. Ultimately you want to have a baby and there's nothing wrong in being hopeful.

Whatever you decide to do, lots and lots of luck.

 

[Shazzy]

Its all up to the person, if you feel you are ready and want to, then go for it. Good luck.

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so sorry for your loss.
I think its completely normal.

 

[sam76]

im in the same situation, this was my 2nd m/c but i cannot give up! i know it will never replace the babies i have lost, but i just want my own, and to hold her/him in my arms, i think u should try when u think its the right time. not sure when i will ov due to the m/c 4/6 weeks they said before i have my next witch, so it will take time, but soon im praying i will be pregnant and be safe too xxxxxxxxxxx goodluck xxxxxxxxx

 

[colsy]

is is bad wanting to try for another baby only 1 week after mis cariage... im worried its going to happen again n also that i am only thinking of doing it as a replacement... im just so confused... has anyone been through the same thing? or even just got some advice id really love to hear it...

Sorry to hear you've had a m/c.

No, I don't think it's bad to want to try again so soon. I wanted to TTC literally the following day. We waited a week, until bleeding had stopped, and then we TTC again. We didn't wait for first AF, as I got various opinions and some people said wait and some said not to bother waiting. Am now hoping that the little twinges I keep feeling inside me are implantation rather than imminent AF. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. XX

 

[honeybunch2k7]

It's normal. I always wanted to get pregnant again really quickly. I tried to think that I wasn't trying to replace Taylor, but it's difficult to get your hopes up and then have a mc.


I'm sorry for you loss.