noon_child
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For about three months now I've been having breast pain (a dull ache through the left and lower side of my left breast). It happened at first just when I took off my bra at night, and it's not like that's never happened before, and after about a week went back to normal and I forgot about it. then the same thing happened a few weeks later. The third time it happened I thought "Oh is it hormonal as it is coming and going" but I don't have a cycle (merina coil) to compare it to so thought I'd wait to see how long it took to go away. Only it didn't go away, it lasted three weeks before I booked a doctors appointment because it had started to ache throughout the day (not badly so never bothered with painkillers but it was there) and hurt if my DH squeezed it. Of course my appointment wasn't for another week after that (which makes 4 weeks pain)...in fact it was this afternoon.
Only problem is that yesterday my pain disappeared. When I told the doctor this she said "Oh well that's OK then." as if I shouldn't have bothered coming. I said I was worried it might come back again like before and so she offered to examine me if I wanted. I said yes please as it would be pointless to have to arrange another appointment later. She then gave me the most cursory breast exam ever (I've had one before and it felt like it took ages) it must have been over in less than 30 seconds. She didn't examine up to my collar bone or under my armpit (which granted is not where the pain was coming from but she never actually asked me exactly where the pain was!) which I would expect from a breast exam, she just rolled it maybe three times between her palms (having done the same to my pain free breast for comparison).
As I was getting dressed she answered her phone and had a conversation about whether she could cover some other clinic next week. It was a work call but she didn't even say "I'm with a patient right now" I finished dressing and I just stood there not sure if I should just leave or whether I needed to stay incase she wanted to tell me anything.
The whole thing just made me feel tearful and I don't even know why.
I know the way I have phrased this post shows that I'm upset so a lot of you are going to be on my side and say she was out of order etc. but I really do want honest opinions about, given my symptoms, whether she asked enough questions and examined me enough.
Only problem is that yesterday my pain disappeared. When I told the doctor this she said "Oh well that's OK then." as if I shouldn't have bothered coming. I said I was worried it might come back again like before and so she offered to examine me if I wanted. I said yes please as it would be pointless to have to arrange another appointment later. She then gave me the most cursory breast exam ever (I've had one before and it felt like it took ages) it must have been over in less than 30 seconds. She didn't examine up to my collar bone or under my armpit (which granted is not where the pain was coming from but she never actually asked me exactly where the pain was!) which I would expect from a breast exam, she just rolled it maybe three times between her palms (having done the same to my pain free breast for comparison).
As I was getting dressed she answered her phone and had a conversation about whether she could cover some other clinic next week. It was a work call but she didn't even say "I'm with a patient right now" I finished dressing and I just stood there not sure if I should just leave or whether I needed to stay incase she wanted to tell me anything.
The whole thing just made me feel tearful and I don't even know why.
I know the way I have phrased this post shows that I'm upset so a lot of you are going to be on my side and say she was out of order etc. but I really do want honest opinions about, given my symptoms, whether she asked enough questions and examined me enough.