Was this what i wished for. OMG forgive me.

[jacky24]

O.k im am shocked, shatered and hurting so bad.

The doctor whom i blame for losing my son for being negligent, daughter has lost her baby to unexplained reasons at 12weeks.

He phoned my MIL and said he is so sorry for what he has done, as now he knows how it must feel to lose a child he wanted so much, also his first grandchild.



I always thought if that doctor could just know what i have been going thru he might be there more with other women, and now this.

Dear Lord i didn't mean for this to happen.

 

[NickyT75]

Aw don't feel like this hun

You have to know that this had absolutely NOTHING to do with you.

Unfortunately all us ladies on here have had to learn the hard way that losing a baby is very common.

It's 'just one of those things' that happens to people in all walks of life for no good reason but maybe the doctor will show a little more compassion to others in the future now that he understands the pain a bit better.

Don't be so hard on yourself xx

 

[Logiebear]

Don't feel bad about it hun. Unfortunately misscarriages are so much more common than you know until you have one and realise how many others are out there with the same situations. Don't beat yourself up hun, it's just another one of those things can be helped. An unfortunate coinsidence

 

[Sambatiki]

Hun You can't blame yourself for something that is out of your control.

What Im wondering is why the flying hell he called your parents!!!! He's no right to do that!!

 

[jacky24]

This specific doctor helped catch my baby after c-section, and MIL had some work done in hospital on monday and he saw her not physically called SOZ and then she told me last night.

I mean i trully inside me hate the 2doctors that were the cause for me loosing my full term baby, but i defenately wouldn't have wished for either of them to lose a child aswell one day

I don't blame myself but unfortunately i believe in god and the wheel does turn.

 

[NikiJJones]

Jacky: please don't feel in any way bad about this. You have enough pain in your life right now without shouldering others' pain too.
What has happened to this doctor and her family is terrible for them, but since I met everyone on this forum, I have realised how common this loss is, and the fact it has happened to her too, is in NO WAY down to you.
I too believe in the wheel of fate turning, and soon, I pray, it turns up some very happy news for you. You have been so brave, and so deserve some happiness!
Sending you hugs,
xxxx

 

[jacky24]

Jacky: please don't feel in any way bad about this. You have enough pain in your life right now without shouldering others' pain too.
What has happened to this doctor and her family is terrible for them, but since I met everyone on this forum, I have realised how common this loss is, and the fact it has happened to her too, is in NO WAY down to you.
I too believe in the wheel of fate turning, and soon, I pray, it turns up some very happy news for you. You have been so brave, and so deserve some happiness!
Sending you hugs,
xxxx

Thanks niki

 

[Nicnac]

Hey Jacky,

Niki's so right, it is an unfortunate, horrible thing to happen, but it does happen. And we dont know why, but it's not down to us having thoughts or feelings towards someone.

You have been through such a traumatic thing that it is natural for you to feel resentful, but the Dr's situation has NOTHING to do with what you may have thought.

On a lighter note, if it was possible to curse someone with just thoughts then
I'd be boss-less, neighbour-less and that bloomin women at our local shop would be bald!!!!

Cheer up honey.

Big

 

[jacky24]

Hey Jacky,


On a lighter note, if it was possible to curse someone with just thoughts then
I'd be boss-less, neighbour-less and that bloomin women at our local shop would be bald!!!!

Cheer up honey.

Big

You have trully made my day, im just coming to realise how amny people dear to me are hurting also with either a loss or having a very difficult pregnancy.

My friend neyney has trully taken a piece of my heart today
And my other friend whom is 6weeks pregnant and very ill with exstreme high blood pressure.

Some days are just hard.

 

[sam's mum]

Please don't feel bad in any way for his daughter's loss. You are so sweet for always thinking of others...you really do deserve so much happiness x

 

[oOKayOo]

im sorry you feel this way .. dont feel bad hun, it shows how much of a nice person you are caring for others like this

 

[Mamafy]

25 years ago my then 6 year old sister (I was 10) got knocked down as we got off our school bus, she was killed instantly. The woman that knocked her down later lied in court to keep herself from losing her license and going to jail Her 13 year old daughter was in the car too.

8 years later her daughter (the one who was in the car) gave birth to a little boy with lots of heart problems he died aged 6 months and I too wondered had my inner thoughts of anger caused this, I hope not.

Sending you hugs hun

 

[mBLACK]

25 years ago my then 6 year old sister (I was 10) got knocked down as we got off our school bus, she was killed instantly. The woman that knocked her down later lied in court to keep herself from losing her license and going to jail Her 13 year old daughter was in the car too.

8 years later her daughter (the one who was in the car) gave birth to a little boy with lots of heart problems he died aged 6 months and I too wondered had my inner thoughts of anger caused this, I hope not.

Sending you hugs hun

Sometimes these things just happen, and it's in our nature to find something - somebody - anybody, to blame for horrible horrible things like this. But we have to realize that no matter who we blame it can't turn back time - don't blame yourself, you did nothing wrong and couldn't have prevented what happened from happening (to Jacky and Mamafy). You were both helpless in the situation and blaming yourselves will not make it any easier. The most you can do is pray for their families and know that their babies are in Gods arms now.
to everyone.

 

[cherylanne]

God would never punish an innocent woman by taking away her unborn child, i know what was in your thoughts, but this is not down to you, it was a natural thing to happen and perhaps the baby just wasn't ment to be.

I pray that this womans suffering will end soon and for you to have the baby you desire.

My thoughts and prayers are with you xxx