~ Vicky ~
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I met my ex on monday to 'talk' about all things bubs related. I hadn't seen him since March before we broke up so it was extremely awkward to say the least.
First off he was half an hour late. I was just getting ready to get up and leave when he waltzed in. Then although it was him who (finally) decided we needed to meet up he just didn't seem in the slightest bit interested in anything I had to say.
I told him he's still the baby's father so I don't mind him having all the involvement he wants and what was his reply? A shrug. No words, just a shrug of the shoulders. I also told him that under no certain terms would I allow that 'girl' (his gf he cheated on me with) any contact with our baby and again he shrugged.
What did this man want? It was like getting blood out of a stone.
We talked about why he cheated on me and ended our perfectly fine relationship and he said because if he didn't do it, then I certainly would've done what with him being away in the RAF and everything. That alone is complete bullshit. I was devoted to that man and never once even looked at anyone else in our entire relationship/engagement.
I left having resolved nothing and feeling more upset than I have done in a long time.
That's the last straw. No more updates for him from now on. He can do all the work as i've had enough. I find out the sex of 'my' baby on wednesday, up to him if he wants to know. I aint gonna text him the news.
Asshole.
First off he was half an hour late. I was just getting ready to get up and leave when he waltzed in. Then although it was him who (finally) decided we needed to meet up he just didn't seem in the slightest bit interested in anything I had to say.
I told him he's still the baby's father so I don't mind him having all the involvement he wants and what was his reply? A shrug. No words, just a shrug of the shoulders. I also told him that under no certain terms would I allow that 'girl' (his gf he cheated on me with) any contact with our baby and again he shrugged.
What did this man want? It was like getting blood out of a stone.
We talked about why he cheated on me and ended our perfectly fine relationship and he said because if he didn't do it, then I certainly would've done what with him being away in the RAF and everything. That alone is complete bullshit. I was devoted to that man and never once even looked at anyone else in our entire relationship/engagement.
I left having resolved nothing and feeling more upset than I have done in a long time.
That's the last straw. No more updates for him from now on. He can do all the work as i've had enough. I find out the sex of 'my' baby on wednesday, up to him if he wants to know. I aint gonna text him the news.
Asshole.