WhitheartsQ
Toddler mom and pregnant
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Hoping you are doing well, and that you may have started having contractions. 

I had this exact situation two and a half years ago with my son. I fully support what you're doing and given my time again I would wait it out too. In addition, I would insist on a large dose of antibiotics to counter the chances of infection, I have learnt this is something that is available but not always offered. Are you in the uk?
I had my labour induced with pitot in after 50 hours as they scared me into it. I had an Epi as the pain was unbearable. After 5 hours I was 1cm. My body just wasn't ready. My son got distressed. He was dragged out with rotational forceps in the end. My labour was a contributing factor to him finding breastfeeding hard. He was sleepy from the drugs (2 spinals as the Epi failed) and hard cranial issues from the emergency forceps. I would never be induced again and would opt for c section.
I hope things are working out for you and that you've gone into labour on your own!
Don't let them scare you into thinking you're killing your baby by not having the pit. It's best for them that you have the pit, it's not best for your baby. Get the antibiotics and go home. How many weeks are you?
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I haven't gone into labour yetFeel so guilty about holding off on an induction as it seems irresponsible to many people but I am monitoring myself and baby as best I can and really do feel that the risks of intervention at this point might be higher than leaving things as they are (as they stand right now).
It's not easy and there are horror stories on either side of the fence. I do have some menstrual-type cramping but think this could be from baby nuzzling its head down on me. I have constant backache now too but I'm not going to place much hope in that.
I can't express how helpful this forum is, thanks to everyone for giving me their opinions and supportMy head is racing from all the info I've been reading today so I'll have to read everything again but I feel so much more informed.