Wats happend 2 Ella..?

[Hollys_Twinny]

Hey girls ne 1 know wats happend 2 ella and her thread on here..? jus been thinkin about her..and wondered if all has gone ok 4 her..?

 

[stefb]

i was just thinking the same hope shes ok

 

[Uvlollypop]

maybe she pmed admin and asked for it to be removed. i have found if someone vanishes from a forum its best left alone

 

[nikky0907]

Oh good.I already thought some kind of fight or uglyness happened on the thread and thats why it was deleted.

 

[Uvlollypop]

i did keep popping on it and didnt see any nastyness, maybe she was upset about the content of the thread and asked for it to be removed? or not we may never know! best not to speculate to much

 

[Sarah-Jane]

I was wondering the same thing but didn't really wanna question it. She not been online either? Aww hope she's ok... I'm sure she'll have made the right decision and she'll be holding her LO in her arms soon enough =]
All my love to her anyways

 

[Uvlollypop]

I was wondering the same thing but didn't really wanna question it. She not been online either? Aww hope she's ok... I'm sure she'll have made the right decision and she'll be holding her LO in her arms soon enough =]
All my love to her anyways

um.. did you actually see the thread?

 

[Sarah-Jane]

um.. did you actually see the thread?

Yeah, her mum wanted to have her get her baby aborted at 23weeks...
was that the one?... if not... sorry :/
xx

 

[Uvlollypop]

right for those who didnt see it, ella is no longer pregnant. this news has been very upsetting for people. the thread has gone because theres nowhere else it could have gone without getting more upsetting.

ella knows we are all thinking about her and im sure she will be on when shes ready.


i really think it should be left there to avoid upsetting anyone else its a horrid situation that has shocked us all.

xx

 

[doctordeesmrs]

Stir Crazy removed the thread for ethical reasons.

 

[Hollys_Twinny]

Yeah I agree we should all just hold ella in our thoughts as she must be going through an emotional time..! and when she is ready we can all support her..!

 

[XKatX]

The poor girl. I did wonder what had happened. She is in my thoughts and prayers x x x

 

[nikky0907]

I truly hope that she knows that we offer full support to her.

She doesn't have to feel ashamed or that she is being judged.Anything she needs we are here...

to you Ella!

 

[Mummy2B1806]

I dont even know what 2 say....but we will be here when she is ready to talk. It will be an emotional time for her.

She is in my thoughts

xxx

 

[leeanne]

Quoting StirCrazy before the thread was closed yesterday:

OK, We're now left with an ethical dilemma. This forum is about pregnancy and trying to conceive, both of which are pro-life (even though the forum itself is neutral). I can't in good conscience leave this thread on the main board.

Ella as you didn't take up any offer of help and were given the choice to change your mind, I think the best way for us to deal with this is to remove the thread.

I know this is a very difficult time for you, but every action causes a reaction and I fear that this might be a problem having so many members that are desperate to get pregnant.

I wish you all the best but I think the best thing you can do is update your email address in your BabyandBump profile so that anyone wishing to contact you can do so off the forum.

This post will be left until you've read this. I'm sorry if this upsets anyone; please feel free to PM if you disagree.

S.C>

 

[StirCrazy]

Thanks Leeanne



Think that says it all.

Thread Closed.