...as to whether to try for a third.
Hubby has agreed to keep the discussion open on whether to try for a third until July 2015, I just wanted a timeframe to aim for it's flexible though. I don't know if I want a third or not, hubby isn't so keen but isn't ruling it out.
In the mean time i/we need to:
- finish the postgraduate diploma aspect of my masters
- go on honeymoon (we are planning on dubai next year, nearly 5 years late lol)
- probably move, hubby is likely to get re-posted in the next 12 months which means a job change for me.
So in that time I will be thinking about:
- making sure I am trying for the right reasons, I must not trick myself into thinking I want a third if I am only trying for a girl lol!
- work out finances, this is hard to do not knowing where we will be moving to and if I will find work ok.
-getting out of the baby stage and working out if I am happy to go back there...!
Sorry just writing out my thoughts for my own clarity, feel free to add your own goals and thoughts if you're uncertain about your own decisions
(I know I should chill out and see what happens with life, but I'm the kind of person that needs plans and deadlines lol)
Hubby has agreed to keep the discussion open on whether to try for a third until July 2015, I just wanted a timeframe to aim for it's flexible though. I don't know if I want a third or not, hubby isn't so keen but isn't ruling it out.
In the mean time i/we need to:
- finish the postgraduate diploma aspect of my masters
- go on honeymoon (we are planning on dubai next year, nearly 5 years late lol)
- probably move, hubby is likely to get re-posted in the next 12 months which means a job change for me.
So in that time I will be thinking about:
- making sure I am trying for the right reasons, I must not trick myself into thinking I want a third if I am only trying for a girl lol!
- work out finances, this is hard to do not knowing where we will be moving to and if I will find work ok.
-getting out of the baby stage and working out if I am happy to go back there...!
Sorry just writing out my thoughts for my own clarity, feel free to add your own goals and thoughts if you're uncertain about your own decisions
(I know I should chill out and see what happens with life, but I'm the kind of person that needs plans and deadlines lol)