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Had our fertility appointment today and have now been discharged from gynaecology and have been referred to The Hewitt Centre which is the specialist IVF and IUI treatment centre in my area. It's at the same hospital but in a different building.

Filled out referral forms today. They took height, weight (ugh), BMI. Asked all the questions about smoking, drinking, how many units per week, etc. The doctor signed the forms, I signed, OH signed.

She said that the next time we hear from them it will be confirmation that we are On the List, so to speak. The time after that will be when our time arrives. She says the waiting list at the minute is only three months so we should expect egg retrieval or the like in around April.

She has also put us down for IUI. She says it's just an extra. We can have three tries at IUI, three tries at IVF before it starts costing anything.

She was also very, very surprised that Clomid did not make me ovulate.

"I see you have endometriosis and a question mark over your ability to ovulate," she said. And, then, "that's two strikes, really, isn't it?

Yes.

Yes, it is.

Fingers crossed that one of these procedures works. And, that none of us are waiting too long...
 
The next three months will fly by - free 3 IUI and IVF attempts is great - we only get 1 free in my area. Wishing you all the best x
 
well i am glad thing are moving along for you ...:hug::hugs:
 
hey good luck...really hope your much closer to your BFP! I will be looking out for it!
 
wanted to ask you...how are you feeling about it ...?
i was telling my husband yesterday the doc told us if we don;t conceive by the end of april ...we will take the road of clomid and IUI as well...

but for some reason i am peace with it...strange but battling so many months and no bfp i am so ready to go that road...i don't care if i need medical help anymore i just want to get there...
 
Curly

Thats fab about your funding. We are currently trying to get some funding out of our PCT

Good luck hun

xxxx
 
Thats fantastic news Curley!! three goes at IVF is great, most PCT's offer only one. Its not long to wait either. I hope you feel ok about it as i know you didn't want it to come to this. :hug:
 
Hey CS

That is fantastic news! So hopefully the next time you get a letter they'll have details of your first course of IUI and then it's only a matter of time! :wohoo:
 
Wow - that's great news Curly. No waiting time to speak of, 3 tries at IUI and 3 tries at IVF is absolutely brilliant. Are there any houses for sale in your street???
 
That's great news hun. I'm sure three months will fly by.
 
Thanks all. I don't really feel at peace about it, Miel, to be honest, because so many doors have already been closed to me. Natural conception, door slammed shut. Clomid? Didn't work. So, now my only true hope is this.

At consultation she implied that my Endo was worse than I had been led to believe. "Your tubes are clear," she said, "but there was some present on your left ovary so that might explain why you are not regularly ovulating and why you are not conceiving."

She also said that because I did not ovulate on Clomid they would have to move onto something else for any potential IUI cycles.

I just wish I was normal. I wish I could be one of these people who gleefully post on the forums "First try!" I'm not, and I'm having a hard time coming to terms with that.

I'm having a hard time coming to terms with anything, in fact, and the only thought in my head is "What if it doesn't work?" i simply don't have the money to go private.
 
Thanks all. I don't really feel at peace about it, Miel, to be honest, because so many doors have already been closed to me. Natural conception, door slammed shut. Clomid? Didn't work. So, now my only true hope is this.

At consultation she implied that my Endo was worse than I had been led to believe. "Your tubes are clear," she said, "but there was some present on your left ovary so that might explain why you are not regularly ovulating and why you are not conceiving."

She also said that because I did not ovulate on Clomid they would have to move onto something else for any potential IUI cycles.

I just wish I was normal. I wish I could be one of these people who gleefully post on the forums "First try!" I'm not, and I'm having a hard time coming to terms with that.

I'm having a hard time coming to terms with anything, in fact, and the only thought in my head is "What if it doesn't work?" i simply don't have the money to go private.

:hugs: they can not removed your endo by surgery ? a client of mine her endo was so severe that was the only way she could get preggo to removed it totally ...she did and got pregnant the second month after surgery (after 2 year ttc ) they warned her that if she wanted a second child she will probably have to do that again as endo come back ...
 
As far as I know they removed some during lap and dye but I have no idea. I am sure if they could remove it they would have done. Would have been the most simple solution, after all.
 

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