Well I should of known!

[Laura2919]

He's a liar. Point blank.

It was his day off today and he changed it saying work had swapped his days. I had my car booked in for a service and had to finish christmas shopping but I changed the day and helped him out. I dragged the twins on a bus using a single buggy and he was laying in bed waiting for his girlfriend to come home from work. I'm so fed up with him..

Went to mums today and his van was parked there. Couldnt believe he lied.. I'm so passed his shit that I told his mum I am collecting the girls at 9am Christmas morning..

I'm not being lied to constantly.

 

[Lemonflower]

He's such a co*k Laura!!

You're so fair and reasonable to him yet he sh*ts on you all the time!

Try and stay calm though I know you probably want to rant at him!



xxxx

 

[Laura2919]

I cant believe he would do it again. I'm going to tell him he is no longer welcome in my house. I'm sick of his lies and rubbish, its not happening anymore. so peed off with him right now!

 

[tina_h75]

what a knob, he has had his chances and he is now just taking advantage because he assumes you will change your plans to suit his. He knows what days he has the girls and that should be his priority. Pick them up early Christmas and have a lovely day with them, it will soon hit him what he is missing - it should be him bending over backwards to get that quality time with them.

 

[Laura2919]

I text his mum and she is going to call me later.

I've decided that they can have the girls until 12pm because I feel bad for his family, not him, his family.
I am going to say he is no longer welcome in my house, no longer welcome to anything I am attending with regards to my children and he is no longer allowed to change any days he has set with me.

Lets see how this works..

 

[teal]

He's such an arse.

Hope you're ok xx

 

[Laura2919]

I'm ok. I've realised that sometimes there are no helping idiots such as him. I've tried and he lied. I'm going to just move past it. I am going to now start to just ignore his crap. He wont be changing another day with me and will give me them 4 weeks in advance. Whatever he thinks he is playing at wont always win him favours.

 

[Rhio92]

xxxx

 

[MummyJade]

What a utter cock!! He changed his day to lay in bed and wait for his girlfriend!
So what hes just showed his girlfriend is more important?!

Laura good on you, don't take his shit, Sounds like his mum agrees with you.. and your doing well by sticking to the xmas agreement for the sake of his family...

xx

 

[Laura2919]

He came to drop them off and I gave him my car key so he could put my car seats back in and when he came back I took the key and slammed the door. He said he wanted to say bye so I just ignored him. Give him a taste of his own medicine. I cant stand him right now. Actually I probably never will.

 

[littlekitten8]

Laura he is such a cock! He has gone too far. Not surprised you are so cross. Dunno how you managed not to rip his head off!

 

[Laura2919]

I'm so passed his rubbish now I just feel sorry for him. I feel sorry that his sad little life is so consumed by a women that he is forgetting about his kids. That his sad little life hasn't got space for the two most important things. But I keep saying and will keep on saying one day when they rely on another man for support he will kick himself... But by then it will all be a little too late...

 

[MummyJade]

I agree Laura, its the same with Maizie, one day (hopefully i wont be single forever) that there will be a man who lives with us and is actually there for the bad times as well as the good, and rely on him for support...

Its their own fault for caring about everything else bar their child/ren....

xx

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah its just going to be a matter of time... One day he will be sorry.

Its just a constant mess around with him. His mum called today to say he is off 2nd Jan instead of 3rd (my birthday) so I said no he is having them 3rd. Couldnt care less. I've made plans.. If he messes around this time I am gonna tell him court it is...