Well That's Just...Great..

[Miss_Quirky]

So FOB took LO to Sacramento with him for two days so that I can get some rest, my depression and his colic was making it difficult for me to function, so I needed it. Well we talked last night, and not only is he still being wishywashy about what he even wants while still putting pressure on me, but now he is leaving down to Monte Ray to see his brother next week.

Well that would have been fine with me. But when I asked him how long he is staying he said, "As long as I feel it necessary"......I questioned him a little more, and I am pretty positive he is staying for at least a week, probably a few weeks. I am really upset, he is leaving me to deal with LO alone while we are in the process of being kicked out and I am trying to find a job, so he can go and bum around on his brother's sofa for a few weeks. Are you serious? I just feel so completely abandoned right now, which I already have issues with and this isn't helping. I am actually beginning to wonder if he is going to skip out on me and LO like his dad did....I never thought he would, but I don't even know anymore I'm not staying where we are now, I am gonna get endless shit from my parents about why he isn't trying to look for a job to support me and Devlin (they don't know we have split yet) the entire time, my friend invited me to live with her and her husband for a while.

I am so annoyed right now.

 

[lizardbreath]

I'm sorry your going through so much crap hun. Hopefully things get better soon. Also completely off topic I love your little guys name

 

[Dream.dream]

im so sorry thats a hard situation.

My son had wicked bad colic for 6 months , he sometimes cryed for 6-8 hours straight, i even learned to sleep sitting up because it was the only way to get him to sleep.
, if you need any support or some help on tricks with the colic feel free to PM me.

 

[jemmie1994]

thats pretty selfish of him and sorry your parents arent more supportive

 

[Miss_Quirky]

He decided not to go because he doesn't have the money too..but he is taking his dad up on going out to Nebraska for work for three months, it's good pay I guess but he didn't want to leave Devlin...Well so he says. But when I talked to him two nights ago he did threaten me with fighting for full custody of him, and said if me and the girl he cheated with can't "just get along and be friends" then he's leaving both our lives, and all me and his son will see from him is a paycheck. Solid parenting there, especially after being abandoned by his dad who leaves for months at a time to work and has never even tried to help him out with money, even when he needed it? I told him I'd be civil if I HAVE to be, but I will never like her and will never be friends with her. And by civil I mean not calling her a whore or kicking the shit out of her next time she is rude to me...which is always. -.- I am not going to be nice to someone who tried to sleep with my boyfriend and wishes she was my son's mum instead of me. Period. I don't know what the hell he is thinking.

Is it wrong of me to think that?