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well..... *we met him! =/*
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Firstly congrats on baby Scarlett...just seen the pics in third tri and shes GORGEOUS!! Well done you!! 
When did you let him know about Scarlett? What was his reaction? Maybe now shes here he will sort himself out and give himself a kick up the arse, although its a bit late now you've had to deal with the pregnancy all by yourself but thats our FOBs for you I suppose!!
How do you feel about seeing him?
xx
When did you let him know about Scarlett? What was his reaction? Maybe now shes here he will sort himself out and give himself a kick up the arse, although its a bit late now you've had to deal with the pregnancy all by yourself but thats our FOBs for you I suppose!!
How do you feel about seeing him?
xx
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Thankyous 
Well she came at 5:28pm and by the time we were both settled on the ward it was 2am, so i let him no the next day in the evening. He didnt really say anything, just a text saying thanks for letting him no.
I dont want to meet him as i cant stand him, but im going too, im hoping it wont be as bad as im thinking its gunna be lol
Well she came at 5:28pm and by the time we were both settled on the ward it was 2am, so i let him no the next day in the evening. He didnt really say anything, just a text saying thanks for letting him no.
I dont want to meet him as i cant stand him, but im going too, im hoping it wont be as bad as im thinking its gunna be lol
I'm sure it won't b least you'll know if he's serious about seeing her and being there for her.
Just thanx for letting me know, god they don't make nothing easy, must think your a mind reader and know exactly how he feels and what he thinks!
Maybe after you've seen him this 1st time it might get easier and you can actually see his reaction for yourself so maybe you'll be able to make a better judgement of where to go from there and how involved you want him to be etc x
Just thanx for letting me know, god they don't make nothing easy, must think your a mind reader and know exactly how he feels and what he thinks!
Maybe after you've seen him this 1st time it might get easier and you can actually see his reaction for yourself so maybe you'll be able to make a better judgement of where to go from there and how involved you want him to be etc x
Congratulations again! Scarlett is beautiful!
You should be proud of yourself! I think it's a brave thing you're doing going out and meeting him with Scarlett.
At least this way you will have a better idea of where you stand with him and whether he is going to be involved or not xx
You should be proud of yourself! I think it's a brave thing you're doing going out and meeting him with Scarlett.
At least this way you will have a better idea of where you stand with him and whether he is going to be involved or not xx
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No they certainly dont make things easy... i found out he was getting his friends to call my friends and getting them to ask about her... why the hell doesnt he just ask me?? Plonker lol
Yeah im hoping the first time will be the worst and then that will be that and either way, i will no what is going to happen!
Yeah im hoping the first time will be the worst and then that will be that and either way, i will no what is going to happen!
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Congratulations again! Scarlett is beautiful!
You should be proud of yourself! I think it's a brave thing you're doing going out and meeting him with Scarlett.
At least this way you will have a better idea of where you stand with him and whether he is going to be involved or not xx
Thnakyous
Thats what im hoping, at least i will no either way, once and for all, what he is going to do!
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Congrats on little Scarlett!!! Will have to go over to third tri n see the pictures!! Decided to come here first as I need some advice again lol
I think your being really brave and your putting your little girl first!! Go you!! Did he not say anything over you contacting him a day later? I hope it all goes ok and at least you will get a better idea of where you and scarlett stand!
Im iffy about seeing FOB after this LO is born and am feeling the same way about him holding him/her etc!! Does sound a bit selfish doesnt it? but i know where your coming from i think!lol
I think your being really brave and your putting your little girl first!! Go you!! Did he not say anything over you contacting him a day later? I hope it all goes ok and at least you will get a better idea of where you and scarlett stand!
Im iffy about seeing FOB after this LO is born and am feeling the same way about him holding him/her etc!! Does sound a bit selfish doesnt it? but i know where your coming from i think!lol
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Haha if kirk met hollie, i would hope she cried the whole time and i would have the satisfaction in saying, well what do you expect, she dont know you!!!!
BUt congrats again Lou, she is soooooo cute!!! xxx
BUt congrats again Lou, she is soooooo cute!!! xxx
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Thats what im secretly hoping she does....either that or a massive poo! haha
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LOU!!! Im so glad to see ur back!
Congrats on the wee woman. so glad everything ok for u both.
Good luck on meeting FOB hun, ur being very decent.
Thankyous!
I did miss seeing what you ladies were up too! A lot of catching up too do!
Im very much in love with her
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aw i just seen this! have you met him yet??
good luck if you havent and how did it go if you have??
It is the first step, its for her in the long run, he has to step up now because he wont get many chances!! I hope shes sick on him.
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good luck if you havent and how did it go if you have??
It is the first step, its for her in the long run, he has to step up now because he wont get many chances!! I hope shes sick on him.
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No its this tuesday comming were going to see him!
Were meeting him in starbucks in my town as my dad will kill him if he comes to the house, he doesnt quite seem to understand that though lol ahwell... haha
I hope its a lot of sick!! lol
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Were meeting him in starbucks in my town as my dad will kill him if he comes to the house, he doesnt quite seem to understand that though lol ahwell... haha
I hope its a lot of sick!! lol
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Good luck!
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Hmmmmm...the sinical side of me is coming through.....maybe bring him to your house 
I know im terrible lol
Lets hope its lots of sick or that little scarlett will cry the whole time and poo all over him 
I know im terrible lol Lets hope its lots of sick or that little scarlett will cry the whole time and poo all over him
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make him buy the coffe and tell him you want lots of cake.
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Good luck, at least meeting him in somewhere public you can leave when you like. If he was to come to your house he might outstay his welcome (which is probs what my FOB will do!) If things are awkward you can leave quite easily.
Hope it goes well. I finally got my PC back so I'm off to FB so nosy at your pictures, I did look through them but only on my tiny phone screen!! xxx
