We're going to court! Bitch!

[jaytee146]

We were suppose to meet last wednesday for Dna testing and he never showed i called him friday and he told me to hold my breath and he'd call back and let me know when he wanted to test, he didn't want to have anything to do with her, doesn't want his name relating to my child, and doesn't want me calling his job under any circumstance. i said well in order for me to get child care being a single parent i needed his name on the paper as the father! do you know he said he was gonna sue me for everything i had if i put his name on anything! he proceeded to tell me he.s taking his time with the Dna testing because he Couldn.'t come to the birth of my child and because i waited three weeks to tell him she was here! he wanted to know what her name was and i wouldn't tell him. i said since you don't think she's yours why would you want to know her name! he said both his parents are coming to COURT with him because they Can't believe i got pregnant! and he won't call or have contact with me until he recieves his court date at his parents house. Say's he'd prefer it that way so he and his family could get all the bull Shit out the way in one day! i know it.'s not right to say but i Can.t stand his guts!

 

[Laura2919]

Dont worry. Let him have his day in court, they will do a DNA test and when it comes back that LO is his he wont be so smug... Although more than likely he will still be a complete twat, but thats simply something you have to live with, leopards very rarely change their spots

 

[jaytee146]

true! i know once the test says she's his he's gonna find something else. i might as well settle down for the long haul.

 

[dustbunny]

Some men... no... the majority of men are twats!!! He will soon see how stupid and immature he has been and have to face up to reality quick smart! Hope it goes ok for you

 

[jaytee146]

thankyou. . . wish i had known everything i knew now! i can't believe i spend nite's wishing and praying i could get pregnant by him. . . thinking it would make Our relationship better, and he was so dumb he was willing to let me give up on school just to cater to him. I shoulda known when i was never allowed to see his son and we dated for four years and was engaged

 

[Laura2919]

You have your daughter from him so dont think what happened was wrong but just ignore him now. If you get a letter from court then just do as it says. Let him think he has it all, cos he dont.