What do I do after so many mc's

[Soanxious]

Im in a cycle where I am not supposed to be ttc... but im too scared not too.. and im to scared to dtd in case I do get pregnant this time..

Do I really want a condom? do I not get pregnant and waste an egg... and get told I have no clotting issues.. or do I ttc and get pregnant and lose it or do I get pregnant and stay pregnant with a bring home baby....
WHAT DO I DO?????????????????????????????

I have 3 grown up children, no problems with pregnancies until last year... now I have lost all 5 within 4 weeks and im so confused as to what to do.. my consultant says it cant be nothing too bad as I have had previous pregnancies that were perfect.. and that I have no problem getting pregnant.. 5 times in 7 months.. its just keeping them... I tried aspirin for the last 3 cycles and still lost 2.

I am too scared to waste my egg

 

[KylasBaby]

Honestly I'd wait if I were you. You've had 5 chemicals do you want to risk another one? Or skip just one cycle and try again after testing? I'd be too scared of another chemical to try again personally. I would sacrifice the one cycle and wait for the testing. Yes, there could be no reason. But if here're isn't a reason it was just one cycle. And if there is a reason you can get treatment if needed and potentially be able to keep your next pregnancy to term.

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks hun.. I know you speak common sense.. its just so hard

Im scared I will become less fertile after letting a month go by and may find it difficult to conceive.. x

 

[KylasBaby]

I'm sure a month or two won't do any harm. I could see six or so having an issue, but I'm sure you're probably okay with one or two.

 

[Angels4]

Hi,

Very sorry to hear about your losses

I have had 5 miscarriages in the last few years (no baby to hold just yet)

Just wondering if you have tried acupuncture?

I've been having it done for the last few months and it's done wonders physically. TTC next cycle so hoping it goes well.

They are helping me with stress (which is good to help my chances of conceiving, but they also are 'cleaning out' my uterus to make sure the lining is healthy so bubz will stick.

After every miscarriage, both my doctor and acupuncturist have told me to wait 3 cycles before TTC.

This allows your body to heal and remove any layering of the uterus so the baby has a chance to stick.

Acupuncture may in fact help increase fertility in that time rather than decrease it.

Good luck
angels

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks.. sorry to hear about your losses too..

I was thinking of accupunture and was looking into it. I may just try it out.

I am going to prevent getting pregnant this cycle so I have a rest but at 41 going on 42 I cant take 3 months off.. my dr's said because mine were early pregnancies that there should not be a problem with me getting pregnant again..im just not getting sticky ones.

I had bloods taken yesterday to test for clotting and antibodies.. so hoping to get results back soon

Good luck with your journey.. hope you have some good news to share soon x