hawalkden
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I am being selfish to get married the way I want to do it? Which is the follow..
Just to have me, OH and two kids in our local Reg Office with the witnesses needed (due to smaller the guest the less money it is and it's £450 just for bride, groom and witnesses) then to have a family meal after in the afternoon with parents, and SIL etc?
Due to we have very very little money even £450 would take us a year to save. Due to not being rubbish savers but things come up like big family parties, more clothes for Isaac and then bumpo and it's gone in a flash.
Also OH has a huge family and just to have a £5000/7000 wedding his family would take half the space needed due to it being so big and that's just immediate family then there's the after do friends and extended family who'd need inviting so it's kind of a no cut off for people really. If we have a barn or huge land etc we'd be sorted and just have outside catering!
Or the next option of just having me, oh, our kids and parents there oh and SIL family plus witnesses then a family do. But that makes me want the whole 'traditional' dress, bridesmaid, dad walking me down and then all that makes me think of the whole £4000-9000 wedding that is traditional nowadays!
If money wasn't a prob then this wouldn't be an issue etc but i just want to have little money involved as pos, so no cake, or fancy wedding dress, or cars etc just a nice going out dress and meal after then a few drinks. Not the dream little girl wedding like everyone wants or even I would like but I love my OH and just want to be his wife :\
So what do I do?
Just to have me, OH and two kids in our local Reg Office with the witnesses needed (due to smaller the guest the less money it is and it's £450 just for bride, groom and witnesses) then to have a family meal after in the afternoon with parents, and SIL etc?
Due to we have very very little money even £450 would take us a year to save. Due to not being rubbish savers but things come up like big family parties, more clothes for Isaac and then bumpo and it's gone in a flash.
Also OH has a huge family and just to have a £5000/7000 wedding his family would take half the space needed due to it being so big and that's just immediate family then there's the after do friends and extended family who'd need inviting so it's kind of a no cut off for people really. If we have a barn or huge land etc we'd be sorted and just have outside catering!
Or the next option of just having me, oh, our kids and parents there oh and SIL family plus witnesses then a family do. But that makes me want the whole 'traditional' dress, bridesmaid, dad walking me down and then all that makes me think of the whole £4000-9000 wedding that is traditional nowadays!
If money wasn't a prob then this wouldn't be an issue etc but i just want to have little money involved as pos, so no cake, or fancy wedding dress, or cars etc just a nice going out dress and meal after then a few drinks. Not the dream little girl wedding like everyone wants or even I would like but I love my OH and just want to be his wife :\
So what do I do?