raychmumtobe
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So I have a freind that comes over almost every week.
Its the same thing everytime.
She'll come over and then spend the whole time here moaning about her mum and dad, about how she doesnt want to live with them anymore and dropping hints about how we have a spare bed.
Shes ended up staying over a few times, just through staying so late that she misses her bus home, despite me asking her over and over to leave as i want to go to bed.
Shes blatantly asked me multiple times if she can move in with me, and ive told her in the politest possible way that we simply do not have the room, that were getting married and have a baby, were a family.
I dont really know what else i can do to make her see that we simply dont have the room, and to be honest, dont really want her to move in anyway.
Its just getting too much! Shes been here since 3pm and only just left, after hours of asking why she cant move in with me and telling me how she has no freinds who let her stay over anymore, asking if she can stay over tonight, even after i said no like 6 times.
What do i do without being mean? I dont want to hurt her feelings, but she just cant seem to understand that i have a family and responsibilities now, im not a teenager anymore.
Any advice?
Its the same thing everytime.
She'll come over and then spend the whole time here moaning about her mum and dad, about how she doesnt want to live with them anymore and dropping hints about how we have a spare bed.
Shes ended up staying over a few times, just through staying so late that she misses her bus home, despite me asking her over and over to leave as i want to go to bed.
Shes blatantly asked me multiple times if she can move in with me, and ive told her in the politest possible way that we simply do not have the room, that were getting married and have a baby, were a family.
I dont really know what else i can do to make her see that we simply dont have the room, and to be honest, dont really want her to move in anyway.
Its just getting too much! Shes been here since 3pm and only just left, after hours of asking why she cant move in with me and telling me how she has no freinds who let her stay over anymore, asking if she can stay over tonight, even after i said no like 6 times.
What do i do without being mean? I dont want to hurt her feelings, but she just cant seem to understand that i have a family and responsibilities now, im not a teenager anymore.
Any advice?