TwilightAgain
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So today I went for an interview for my placement for my Social Work masters. And it was a pretty tense interview to say the least. A lot was debated.
We clashed over personal values being the same as company values. I agree yes and no, he just said yes. But what stood out to me was this...
He said that a past student once questioned a mother's decision to return to her partner who was absolutely useless (no help, stressed, big baby etc) she herself was suffering from PND. Apparently this student said "are you sure that's a wise decision?"
And she had been completely chastised for it.
I argue that if I must abide by these rules and remain objective then arguably i'm going against my own values. I believe if someone is doing something which may create them harm (whether psychological or physical) then i'd be doing more by talking it through with them, rather than just accepting it.
No one likes being judged or undermined, but at the same time, i'd rather that someone gave me an honest opinion than just tell me I was doing the right thing when i'm not. I might not necessarily listen, but at least the opportunity to have an external perspective is there and i'd probably feel like I could trust that person's opinion more. Bit like on here, I see a lot of posts that receive encouragement even though I believe the OP is wrong in their actions, whereas if I post something and say am I overreacting, i'd rather people were honest and tell me I am, if I am if you know what I mean.
What are your views on this? Do you think it's ok to just let people get on with what they want or would your own personal values make this difficult?
We clashed over personal values being the same as company values. I agree yes and no, he just said yes. But what stood out to me was this...
He said that a past student once questioned a mother's decision to return to her partner who was absolutely useless (no help, stressed, big baby etc) she herself was suffering from PND. Apparently this student said "are you sure that's a wise decision?"
And she had been completely chastised for it.
I argue that if I must abide by these rules and remain objective then arguably i'm going against my own values. I believe if someone is doing something which may create them harm (whether psychological or physical) then i'd be doing more by talking it through with them, rather than just accepting it.
No one likes being judged or undermined, but at the same time, i'd rather that someone gave me an honest opinion than just tell me I was doing the right thing when i'm not. I might not necessarily listen, but at least the opportunity to have an external perspective is there and i'd probably feel like I could trust that person's opinion more. Bit like on here, I see a lot of posts that receive encouragement even though I believe the OP is wrong in their actions, whereas if I post something and say am I overreacting, i'd rather people were honest and tell me I am, if I am if you know what I mean.
What are your views on this? Do you think it's ok to just let people get on with what they want or would your own personal values make this difficult?