vermeil
Mom to 27 week wonder+DD
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well perhaps this link belongs more in the lttc forum but this one is my 'home' now so I'm sharing it with all of your great ladies
https://offbeatmama.com/2012/04/talking-about-infertilit
I have been only trying for 6 months and I'm already feeling a little nuts . It took 6 months for our first and I was already feeling frustrated. BD was stressful, a huge chore and a point of tension with my husband. So reading these helped a little. But we`re keeping our ttc secret from everyone to avoid this sort of comment and mostly to avoid the dreaded 'but didn`t you jsut turn 40?' one.
Before even ttc number 2, a coworker (someone I barely know) asked if we would have more. I shrugged and said 'well maybe.' Then she added the dreaded 'even at your age?'..... I politely replied that it was a personal choice and not really a topic for work. Though the many, many answers that ran through my head just then were all FAR less polite
https://offbeatmama.com/2012/04/talking-about-infertilit
I have been only trying for 6 months and I'm already feeling a little nuts . It took 6 months for our first and I was already feeling frustrated. BD was stressful, a huge chore and a point of tension with my husband. So reading these helped a little. But we`re keeping our ttc secret from everyone to avoid this sort of comment and mostly to avoid the dreaded 'but didn`t you jsut turn 40?' one.
Before even ttc number 2, a coworker (someone I barely know) asked if we would have more. I shrugged and said 'well maybe.' Then she added the dreaded 'even at your age?'..... I politely replied that it was a personal choice and not really a topic for work. Though the many, many answers that ran through my head just then were all FAR less polite