What shall i do about my 'mummys boy' partner?

[elliewelliexx]

Hi everyone

I'm having a crisis with my OH, just wondered if anyone could give me some advice or support?, this situation is making me really depressed

OH and I are currently living together in a flat that we both pay for.
The main problem is he insists on going back home to this mums house every weekend!!!!
(he leaves here friday night and returns monday night)
I dont have any family or friends living close, so i'm a total shut in when he's away.
I'm currently 29 weeks pregnant and i'm really starting to struggle with little things around the house so I need somebody with me.
We've been together 2 years and hes always done this, at first i didn't mind but now it just seems ridiculous, i've argued with him thousands of times about this but nothing ever gets resolved, if anything it just makes it worse.
i've tried so hard on this relationship but I feel like i get nothing back

So basically, should I call it a day with him? Any advice/support is appreciated

 

[TTCinBC]

What is his reason behind doing this? It sounds really odd to me to be honest. I know I wouldn't stand for it. That being said, maybe try and find out the real reason he's doing it, and see if you guys can find a compromise?

 

[Laura2919]

It sounds weird.. Why would he need to go home every weekend? is this his plan when the baby is here? to miss the whole weekend with his child?

Sit him down and talk to him, I hope you can work things out.

 

[xSophieBx]

I agree with the others. You need to talk to him and see if this is going to continue once the baby is here and possibly give him an ultimatum.

Also you'll probs get more help if u posted in the home/relationship problem section as this is the single parents section

 

[Laura2919]

^^ I agree with SophieB.

 

[anna matronic]

I think this should be in relationships section... We here don't have partners or lol x