zofranks
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To give you a little bit of background, I am 40, in July we found out I was pregnant for the first time (it was a surprise), on Aug 5th I had a mc & it made me realise that I did actually want a child in my life, anyway as soon as we could we started ttc'ing but my AF arrived 1st September so this is my first proper cycle since the mc, so far though FF doesn't have me as ovulated, I had an 'almost' positive opk on CD 11 but CD 12 it had faded to almost white again, anyway because I have been stressing & worrying about it I am now rethinking it all, I am not sure how much longer I can keep trying for, I started taking the conception support tablets when I had the mc along with agnus castus & I have been reading up about taking soy isoflavones & B6 at the start of my next cycle, I think my cycle is around 28 days but I am not entirely sure. If all of these don't work then I don't know what I will do next, when my af after the mc arrived I wasn't too upset but I think to that when it arrives this month I will be upset & I can only imagine it getting worse each month after that. I feel like I am already becoming too over anxious with the whole business & wonder if we should just give up & if it happens it happens. I am so confused, my head is all over the place & I am not sleeping properly.
What would you do? Does anyone have any advice on how to cope, how long after the mc should I be able to ovulate again or should I go to the docs & ask them about it? I don't think at my age they would do anything anyway to be honest.
What would you do? Does anyone have any advice on how to cope, how long after the mc should I be able to ovulate again or should I go to the docs & ask them about it? I don't think at my age they would do anything anyway to be honest.