what the F**K is wrong with me AAHHHHHHHH

[hopefull85]

ok so my so called bestfriend just told me tonight that she is 5 weeks pregnant and is at the hospital because she thinks it an ectopic pregnancy. if you knew her and her situation you would know why i am highly pissed. what the fuck is wrong with me. she has a 3 year old and is over 300 pounds and she dont have to ever worry about shit. we have been trying for 5 YEARS!!!!!!! im so tired of this. i have my own place my husband makes good money i dont ever ask for help we do it ourselves but all around me the people i know who are younger than me living with parents and have no job at all ( my bestfriend, brother & sis in law) can get pregnant like its nothing. i honestly cannot take this anymore i am going to go crazy.

 

[trying4four]

 

[wonderstars]

 

[Little_Ratbag]

I am with you chick!! All these babies born into families that can't be cared for properly is what gets me BIG TIME! Baby dust to you, I hope it happens soon....

 

[No Doubt]

I completely understand where you are coming from. My brother had his first when he was 17 and there was a nice 10 year break in there, only because he was incarcerated for about 6 of them. But once he got out he started seeing someone and she got pregnant twice, both mc's. Then he started seeing someone else and in the mix got another girl pregnant and 5 months got his girlfriend, now wife, pregnant...with twins! Oh and this is after he already got her pregnant and she had a mc. REALLY?!?!? Don't get me wrong I love my brother and all of his kids, but you obviously didn't do what you were suppose to when younger and now you still can't keep it in your pants whenever 2 lips walk by...yet you just spit out all these babies. I feel like me and my husband are in a better position mentally, physically, financially, etc. to have kids and it's just not happening. So I completely understand. And then my supervisor decides she want to have kids right at the same I decided and she fell pg the second month ttc. She mc'ed, but as soon as the doctor's said she could try again she did. Didn't work out the first month, worked out perfect the second month and she had a beautiful baby girl a couple of months back. But she's spoiled as all hell and selfish. She decided she didn't want to breast feed anymore cause she couldn't drink wine or eat what she wanted cause certain food made the baby "fussy". Again I say REALLY?!?!? I'm not knocking people that don't want to breast feed...some people don't want to various reasons and for some it just doesn't work well, but to not do it cause you don't to sacrifice wine or pizza rolls....whatever!

 

[hopingforit]

I know how you feel. I'm hoping and praying that I get pregnant before July. My sister has an almost 4 year old (who she got pregnant with fairly quickly when she was 17) and when she started dating her new BF in 2010, she got pregnant the first month. Sadly, that was a MMC but she is getting married to her fiance (different guy) and they plan on starting to try in July. She is close to 300lbs and has awesome fertility. Here I am, completely normal weight, no problems on my blood tests or HSG and still not pregnant even though we've been trying since Sept 2010. I know it isn't 5 years but I can relate to how hard it must be for you.

I really hope you get your BFP soon! Sending you lots of and

 

[jess7489]

3 of my closest friends are all pregnant together due the same week, after one week of trying, my hubby n i have been trying for almost a year Life just seems like a cruel joke some times xx i hope you fall pregnant soon

 

[hopefull85]

I completely understand where you are coming from. My brother had his first when he was 17 and there was a nice 10 year break in there, only because he was incarcerated for about 6 of them. But once he got out he started seeing someone and she got pregnant twice, both mc's. Then he started seeing someone else and in the mix got another girl pregnant and 5 months got his girlfriend, now wife, pregnant...with twins! Oh and this is after he already got her pregnant and she had a mc. REALLY?!?!? Don't get me wrong I love my brother and all of his kids, but you obviously didn't do what you were suppose to when younger and now you still can't keep it in your pants whenever 2 lips walk by...yet you just spit out all these babies. I feel like me and my husband are in a better position mentally, physically, financially, etc. to have kids and it's just not happening. So I completely understand. And then my supervisor decides she want to have kids right at the same I decided and she fell pg the second month ttc. She mc'ed, but as soon as the doctor's said she could try again she did. Didn't work out the first month, worked out perfect the second month and she had a beautiful baby girl a couple of months back. But she's spoiled as all hell and selfish. She decided she didn't want to breast feed anymore cause she couldn't drink wine or eat what she wanted cause certain food made the baby "fussy". Again I say REALLY?!?!? I'm not knocking people that don't want to breast feed...some people don't want to various reasons and for some it just doesn't work well, but to not do it cause you don't to sacrifice wine or pizza rolls....whatever!

thanks guys this is why i love this site because i know i can come to ya'll and you know exactly what i am going through. and to ( No Doubt ) my brother's wife got pregnant at 16 and he was 18 and now they are on their second child 5 months after getting her IUD taken out. neither one of them have a job and lives with my almost 60 yr old parents plus my 25 year old brother lives there as well and my parents live off of disability. my 25 year old bestfriend has a 3 year old lives with her mother in law dont work and they live off money they get from donating plasma. but you know what i am so proud of my 18 yr old neice who got pregnant at 16. she has a beautiful home and has everything she could ever need and gives her child all that she needs and more because her husband isnt lazy and actually works so that they dont go without. plus she is always there for me and helps me through my rough nights. I love her. but anyways back on the subject all i am saying is that when it comes to my besfriend and brother that i feel that i am more able to take care of a child. i have my own home, i pay my own bills, my husband works away from home just so i can have the things i do have. so yeah im just saying i get a little annoyed.