What to do!? HELP PLEASE!

[Leamarasmall]

Hello my name Is leamara, I'm 23, and have a son who's 3 and 9 weeks pregnant tomorrow, the man I'm currently with isn't the father of my son, I've been with my partner 8 months so far and the pregnancy was unplanned, before I fell pregnant there was a lot of problems in the relationship with the relationship between him and my son ( they don't really get on because he doesn't understand why my 3 year old is so naughty ) I keep saying its all phases and all kids go through naughty patches and it can't be helped, he also doesn't trust me and doesn't get on with my friends, he's always grumpy and drags me down constently I've left him so many times but he always gets round me saying he will change but he never does! Can I really be a single parent to 2 kids? Im so scared how hard it will be x

 

[Shezza84uk]

Hey hun first of all big hugs, secondly YES YOU CAN!! you can do this on your own your son is probably unhappy at home and if im honest I wouldn't stay with anyone who fail to just be a parent rather than a rival to my child regardless of the fact he's not his biological child he should be understanding and loving to him.

You can start by moving out and getting your own place, if you are not working apply for the benefits required including housing and council tax benefit to see you through. When the baby is born apply for maintenance from the father. You would be happier in your own environment and away from the negative aspects of a dysfunctional relationship and I wouldn't be surprised if your son's behavior also changes.

Long and short of it is yes you can be single parent of 2, I am due with my second soon and I am happiest being on my own until the right partner comes along.

xx

 

[Leamarasmall]

Thank you, he lives with me and my son so gonna chuck him out I think he will go back to his parents x

 

[Jade--x]

I'm a single parent to 2 hun, a 3 year old and a 14 month old. I manage just fine, more than fine actually, and I'm not interested in having any men around Hope things get sorted soon x