PnutProtector
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I am 22 years old. I am engaged and have been living with my fiance for a year now, and we've been dating for three years. We're getting married on May 1, 2010 and we plan on having a baby soon after.
Now here's the situation.
My mother says she isn't ready to be a Grandmother and that she wants us to wait at least three more years to start trying. She says she wants us to be more settled and in a big house first.
ok. I get where she's coming from, but it's just not how we feel.
My FH is 29. He wants to still be young when we have children so he can keep up. He already feels like he's behind and she's not helping.
As far as a house goes, we have a huge three bedroom apartment to ourselves at the moment, and we intend to stay here at least another two years. So it's not like we don't have the space. We're not quite ready to move away from the city.
How do I get her on my side?
Now here's the situation.
My mother says she isn't ready to be a Grandmother and that she wants us to wait at least three more years to start trying. She says she wants us to be more settled and in a big house first.
ok. I get where she's coming from, but it's just not how we feel.
My FH is 29. He wants to still be young when we have children so he can keep up. He already feels like he's behind and she's not helping.
As far as a house goes, we have a huge three bedroom apartment to ourselves at the moment, and we intend to stay here at least another two years. So it's not like we don't have the space. We're not quite ready to move away from the city.
How do I get her on my side?