what would u reply to this text?? from my date for 2mro.

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  1. staycutee

    staycutee mummy

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    im meeting a guy from a dating site tomorrow and am very excited haha but he just text me saying "i gotta try and borrow some money for tomorrow cos im skint. dunno why im telling ubut thought id be honest lol"
    i dunno what im meant to say back. he doesnt really need money we can just buy a bottle of wine between us and drink slowly but i dnt wanan say taht cos then it sounds like im desp to meet him and im thinking of solutions. or doesnt it?
     
  2. Connah'sMommy

    Connah'sMommy Well-Known Member

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    er,im not sure actually hun!...
    At first it sounded as though he might be wanting you to offer to pay?
    But you could say not to worry about the money and that you can go halves? that doesnt make you sound desperate at all hun x
     
  3. staycutee

    staycutee mummy

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    oh i hope he doesnt expect me to pay for everything! but thnaks ill say that xx
     
  4. Parkep

    Parkep Very happy mom

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    halves sounds like a good plan. Just be a little bit wary, its odd that he is telling you this lol.
     
  5. sparkle_1979

    sparkle_1979 Mum to Ruby born Oct 2009

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    I duno actually how i'd take that...To be very honest I'm quite shallow and wouldn't go out with anyone skint, but then i dont expect everyone to be as shallow as me :) x
     
  6. staycutee

    staycutee mummy

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    haah hes gorgeous so im not too bothered :D
     
  7. Lisa1

    Lisa1 Well-Known Member

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    If he is that cute you pay for the wine and get him drunk lol
     
  8. sparkle_1979

    sparkle_1979 Mum to Ruby born Oct 2009

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    im also shallow about looks so could possibly forgive him being skint if he is a hunk lol
     
  9. jenny_wren

    jenny_wren Queen Spammatha

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    :rofl: brilliant!​
     
  10. emilyjade

    emilyjade mummy of two!

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    id do the oh its okay we will go halfs :) good luck hun have a nice time xxx
     
  11. sparkle_1979

    sparkle_1979 Mum to Ruby born Oct 2009

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    do we get to see a picture of your date? x
     
  12. Parkep

    Parkep Very happy mom

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    sooooo what happened? how did it go? and i like this picture idea :)
     
  13. DizzyMoo

    DizzyMoo Guest

    Erm picture please & who paid? I hope you didn't :(
     
  14. staycutee

    staycutee mummy

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    hah i havent been yet! itsa tonight
    im getting nervous
    ok should i post a pic?? am i allowed?x
     
  15. Lisa1302

    Lisa1302 Guest

    oooh I go for looks over money any day - my OH is proper gorgeous but was skint when we met and didn't even own a car that went lol
    Was worth it though cos now he has plenty of money and is still gorgeous hehehehe

    I would just reply saying 'OK, will go halves anyway, see you tomorrow!' That way it doesn't seem like you are bothered that he is skint, and also that you aren't saying 'don't worry' - which might mean he doesnt need to borrow any!!
     
  16. Lisa1302

    Lisa1302 Guest

    You shouldnt really, thats not really fair on him to be honest.
    If it was me I wouldnt want my pic on forums!
     
  17. Amy-Lea

    Amy-Lea Well-Known Member

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    I would of said 'I wasn't expecting for you to pay for the entire night, you just make sure you sort yourself out and I'll sort myself, you can treat me to the second date' but that's just because i am cheeky and would assume theres a 2nd date haha
     
  18. sparkle_1979

    sparkle_1979 Mum to Ruby born Oct 2009

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    cant you put it on the delete it lol

    Have a lovely date...How exciting havent been on a date in yrs, but then I have a gorgeous hubby so can't moan really lol...xx
     
  19. Midnight_Fairy

    Midnight_Fairy New baby J

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    I wouldnt not go out with someone because they were skint, In fact the best date I ever had was with someone unemployed. I once went on a date with a rich buisnesman and it was naff lol but on topic, have fun x
     
  20. Jules

    Jules Mummy of 1 Girl & 1 Boy

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    On my first proper date with OH (after meeting first time) he took me to his mums house and he bought me a takeaway and a bottle of lambrini :rofl: I didn't mind tho coz he's gorgeous too and i'm easy pleased :blush: that was six years ago and we've had much better 'dates' since!

    Oh and his mum was out lol, that would have been weird :rofl:

    I'd do the halves thing, me and OH used to always put our money together to go out, i dont like men paying for everything
     

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