babytimeee
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My best friend, who I did want to be the Godmother of my baby, is just a total idiot to me now. I don't know if it's the hormones (I really doubt it), but I just cannot stand her lately.
A few months ago she called me freaking out because her rat was super thin, walking on balled up fists, and non-responsive. She was all upset because she didn't have the money for an emergency visit to the vet so I bit my tongue and told if she needed help to let me know and I could figure something out. Well in my head I was like "How the hell do you walk by a cage of 4 rats 100 times a day and not notice she was like that? That didn't just ~happen~ overnight."
So she ended up putting the rat down. Two weeks later she's on the phone crying to me that her boyfriend won't let her get a pitbull from the shelter! I just kind of "Ahuh, ok, yeah, I'm sorry-ed" it, but again I was thinking "You can't fucking taking care of rodents and your other dog but you're going to get another one?" WTF man.
Anyway, the point of this is she now has two dogs, one is a Boxer who is 60 pounds and just totally the sweetest thing in the world, and the other is a Pitbull who is also 60 lbs and a total BEAST. She's a year old and, in my opinion, vicious. She jumps on me nonstop, even if I've been there for hours, and she's really mouthy. She nips at everything. She scratched up my arms really bad and even left a really good sized bruise on my shoulder.
Mind you, thiis apartment that they are in is in the ground.. like cave style. It has half windows and no ventilation. I live in a 676sq ft apartment and hers is SMALLER! With two 60 lb dogs, 3 rats, and a cat! It SMELLS. There's mold everywhere from the moisture being drawn up from the ground.. it's just gross. Call me a snob but I try to go over there as little as possible because there's nowhere clean for me to sit that I won't be covered in animal fur. Id rather not go to a friends house and smell after leaving.
Another point I'd like to make is that I posted a picture on my facebook of my cat and she was like "She's not going with you when you move right? That old wives tail, cat's steal baby's breath.. she'll suffocate her." UM I'M SORRY. DO NOT fucking tell me what to do with my baby or my pets that I ACTUALLY take care of. OBVIOUSLY the cat will not be allowed in the baby's room. Don't tell me what to do. Period.
I dunno, I just don't know what to do. I don't even know how to go about telling her that her house is unfit for me visiting nevermind the baby... plus I just really don't want her to be godmother anymore. I wish I never opened my mouth to tell her I wanted her to be. I don't want anyone ELSE to be the godmother, but I really just don't want to honor her with that. What would you do?
Sorry.. long haha
A few months ago she called me freaking out because her rat was super thin, walking on balled up fists, and non-responsive. She was all upset because she didn't have the money for an emergency visit to the vet so I bit my tongue and told if she needed help to let me know and I could figure something out. Well in my head I was like "How the hell do you walk by a cage of 4 rats 100 times a day and not notice she was like that? That didn't just ~happen~ overnight."
So she ended up putting the rat down. Two weeks later she's on the phone crying to me that her boyfriend won't let her get a pitbull from the shelter! I just kind of "Ahuh, ok, yeah, I'm sorry-ed" it, but again I was thinking "You can't fucking taking care of rodents and your other dog but you're going to get another one?" WTF man.
Anyway, the point of this is she now has two dogs, one is a Boxer who is 60 pounds and just totally the sweetest thing in the world, and the other is a Pitbull who is also 60 lbs and a total BEAST. She's a year old and, in my opinion, vicious. She jumps on me nonstop, even if I've been there for hours, and she's really mouthy. She nips at everything. She scratched up my arms really bad and even left a really good sized bruise on my shoulder.
Mind you, thiis apartment that they are in is in the ground.. like cave style. It has half windows and no ventilation. I live in a 676sq ft apartment and hers is SMALLER! With two 60 lb dogs, 3 rats, and a cat! It SMELLS. There's mold everywhere from the moisture being drawn up from the ground.. it's just gross. Call me a snob but I try to go over there as little as possible because there's nowhere clean for me to sit that I won't be covered in animal fur. Id rather not go to a friends house and smell after leaving.
Another point I'd like to make is that I posted a picture on my facebook of my cat and she was like "She's not going with you when you move right? That old wives tail, cat's steal baby's breath.. she'll suffocate her." UM I'M SORRY. DO NOT fucking tell me what to do with my baby or my pets that I ACTUALLY take care of. OBVIOUSLY the cat will not be allowed in the baby's room. Don't tell me what to do. Period.
I dunno, I just don't know what to do. I don't even know how to go about telling her that her house is unfit for me visiting nevermind the baby... plus I just really don't want her to be godmother anymore. I wish I never opened my mouth to tell her I wanted her to be. I don't want anyone ELSE to be the godmother, but I really just don't want to honor her with that. What would you do?
Sorry.. long haha