HappyHome
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Hi all,
I'm currently 11wks with baby #4 and was hoping for a Home Birth this time around.
When I saw the MW for my booking appointment I mentioned it to her and although she said personally she would be happy to attend the birth and would support me I would be unlikely to be allowed one.
Factors were, I had a Emergency section in 2001 for undiagnoised breech.
I am to be under consultant care and need to attend VBAC clinic and perhaps counselling.
Now I understand that these would be offered but...I've had 2 very lovely VBAC's since, all pain relief free and the last being 1hr30minutes. I've never seen a consultant or been to any VBAC clincs.
Do you think there is any way I could convince the consultant to allow me a HB?
We're 30mins from hospital in good traffic, 50 minutes on a bad day. I think all going well baby would probably not be hanging around really with the thinking that each baby goes quicker.
I wanted to stay home to be close to my family and children, hopefully have a relaxed HB in my surroundings. I've nothing against going to hospital at all, I just feel its a bit much after 2 successful VBACs to say I need all this extra attention.
I'm currently 11wks with baby #4 and was hoping for a Home Birth this time around.
When I saw the MW for my booking appointment I mentioned it to her and although she said personally she would be happy to attend the birth and would support me I would be unlikely to be allowed one.
Factors were, I had a Emergency section in 2001 for undiagnoised breech.
I am to be under consultant care and need to attend VBAC clinic and perhaps counselling.
Now I understand that these would be offered but...I've had 2 very lovely VBAC's since, all pain relief free and the last being 1hr30minutes. I've never seen a consultant or been to any VBAC clincs.
Do you think there is any way I could convince the consultant to allow me a HB?
We're 30mins from hospital in good traffic, 50 minutes on a bad day. I think all going well baby would probably not be hanging around really with the thinking that each baby goes quicker.
I wanted to stay home to be close to my family and children, hopefully have a relaxed HB in my surroundings. I've nothing against going to hospital at all, I just feel its a bit much after 2 successful VBACs to say I need all this extra attention.