Whats wrong with OH?!

[Pandasnax]

last night he was acting funny so i asked him what was wrong and he started saying i dont love him ect which i know full well isnt true, i have been a bit moody and quite but i do still try and give him attention :/

but the thing that hurt the most is when he said im not fun anymore.... im not sure what to say to that, im just tired and we dont have time for fun we still hae a laugh, well i thought we did anyways.

now im just worrying that he isnt ready for a baby coz we wont beable to have "fun" for a while when LO is here were sapose to be growing up !!

im very confused :/.... anyways sorry for the rant and sorry if non of this even made sence just needed a little rant.

 

[MaybBaby]

i think alot of men go through this when we become pregnant, i suppose they can't feel how we are as we're the ones carrying this weight, added hormones everything to go! they feel abit left out and maybe thats why he's saying all of this..because he wants reassurance!

he should understand better that you can't go running around the house anymore laughing and messing about,but theres other ways to have fun,maybe you should have a full day out to yourselves, a trip to the park - always a lovely way to get exercise,fresh air, and speak about your feelings. Or even a trip to the zoo,give you something to look at, maybe giggle (after all the monkeys are normally something we end up laughing about) and you'll both leave feeling like you had fun.

sit and chat hun, it'll do the world of good xxxx

 

[tess8517]

Ive had the same too - i dont know how they expect us to be so much fun etc. Our issue is my sex drive has gone to -0 and his is at an all time high as per usual but its causing problems, i love him but just havent got the "drive" xx

 

[Lulu1982]

Mine had a little tantrum last night too!

We still go out to friends for dinner, have people over to stay, I still do all the work I used to on the farm with him and go for walks with the dogs but he feels neglected! Urgh!

I had some time off this week so have done him some nice dinners - baked him some stuff for lunches etc but he still feels like I'm irritated by him ... duh! I will be if you don't stop going on!!

I think maybe they're just realising that they won;t be the main focus of your attention for much longer . I'm sure once the baby comes they'll be just as preoccupied with the LO though!x

 

[MommyJaan]

I have 2 advices.
1. Whenever he feels low, give him a tight hug and tell him you and bub love him loads... Sometimes men need this too!
2. Buy a monopoly board/ game of life board/ xbox and play that sometime...